On the 7s: Episode 19
Awakenings Of The Seven (7)
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So, we are now live on the
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book.
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and we’re still giving folks a
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few minutes to get here. Those
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that are here You can start to
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stretch it out. start to just
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get yourself ready. I am uh uh
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still uh uh in my puff puff
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mode.
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every puff help.
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Hello,
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How you doing? of everybody.
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Alright. Alright. Blessings and
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greetings to everyone. Everyone
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just start stretching it out
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right where you are. You know,
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just uh uh begin. you know, I
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always locked in myself to that
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parking lot balloon. You know,
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that balloon that is just do
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you stretch yourself out. Uh
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wash away. uh all of the cares
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that we’re knocking on adore.
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Uh as you logged in to this
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call and and just get yourself
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in a gratitude mode. Just
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become aware of your
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surroundings. Um you know,
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become aware of your Oh yeah.
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Wacky wacky inflatable tube,
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man. Exactly. Honey bee.
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Exactly. Become aware of the
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molecules. Become aware of your
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cells. Become aware of your
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arteries, your veins, uh your
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skin just just turn your focus
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away from the outside world.
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Turn your focus away from
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whatever uh calls you’ve been
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getting or whatever Emails
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you’ve been getting or whatever
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work is piled up on either the
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left side or the right side of
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your desk. Just turn away from
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all of that right now and focus
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in on you. So, when I mean
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stretch it out, just get
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familiar, get acquainted with
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your body get acquainted with
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your environment. Get
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acquainted with your atmosphere
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and you know, just do AA, check
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down, you know, from the crown
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to the bottom of your feet and
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just check all of your systems
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as we allow others to get here.
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Uh
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Allow yourself to be present.
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here.
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I
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guarantee you whatever issues
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and concerns we all have will
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still be right there after this
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call. So we can leave them
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right where they are. So, just
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you know, roll your shoulders,
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shake your booty in your chair,
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you know, do the twist in the
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chair if you can. If you can
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lean back, do all of that. Just
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get present. with yourself.
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present with
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present with your goals, your
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desires, and your active
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pursuits. Just get present.
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Now, we’re going to go to five
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deep breaths where we’ll take a
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deep breath in through the
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nose. Hold it as long as you
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desire and continue to stretch
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it out and or connect with the
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spirit realm. I will take my
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five deep breaths Uh there’s
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it’s it’s it’s not time. It’s
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not a count and when I get done
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with my five deep breaths and
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connecting with my guide, in
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the spirit realm, we will come
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back and I will lead us into
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our meditation
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I am for this be me on the
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descendants. I am Piper be me.
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energy and attention and focus.
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at your crown chakra.
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that energy and attention and
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focus
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down. into your third eye
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chakra and leave some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus. down over your
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forehead. over your eyebrows,
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over your eyes,
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down through your ears and
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nose. Mouth and teeth and
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through your chin and down into
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your throat chakra. and leave
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some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus. down into your
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shoulders and down into each
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arm. Filling up each arm down
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to the fingertips. and then
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back up to the shoulders. and
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continue pushing that energy
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and attention and focus down
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into that chakra. and leave
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some there
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down. into your solar
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plexus chakra. and leave. some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down. into your
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sacral chakra. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your root
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chakra. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your hips.
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your
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thighs. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your knees.
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and leave. some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your
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calves. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your
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ankles. and leave some
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus down into
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your heels.
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and leave. some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your arches. and
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leave there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus into your
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toes. and leave. it there. Be
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mindful of your organs. Thank
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your kidneys for doing what
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they do. Thank your liver for
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doing what it does. Thank your
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heart. and the blood vessels
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for doing what they do. Thank
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your blood. for doing what it
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does. Thank your feet. for
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holding you up and carrying you
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make your skin for holding you
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all together.
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Thank your ears for hearing in
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your eyes. for seeing in your
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mouth. for opening and closing
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and producing
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Thank you. Feel you and thank
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you.
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Now, we will go to our five
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five release breathing but
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we’ll breathe in on a five
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count. We’ll hold it for a five
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count and then we will release
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fully and you push everything
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out everything out energy and
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attention and focus at the
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toes.
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hearts and minds clear. breathe
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in inspiration.
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Hold your inspiration.
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and release procrastination.
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Push it all the way out. No
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more excuses. breathe in your
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courage.
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Hold your courage.
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and release fear.
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We got this.
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breathe in. motivation.
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Hold that motivation.
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and release. Perfect.
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imperfection. you’re good
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enough just the way you are
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right where you are.
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breathe in positive energy.
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Hold that positive energy.
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and release positive action and
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effort. Energize and equip
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yourself.
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energy and attention and focus
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back at the tone.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your arches and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your heels and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your ankles and
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leave some
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push your energy and attention
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and focus into your calves. and
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leave some
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your knees. and
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leave.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your thighs. and
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leave some
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your hips. and
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leave some
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your root
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chakra. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your sacral
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chakra. and leave some
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your solar
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plexus chakra and leave some
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there.
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push that
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energy and attention
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and focus into your heart
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chakra. and leave some there.
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and
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push that energy and
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attention and focus into your
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throat. chakra. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus up over your chin and
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over your mouth and teeth and
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nose and ears and eyes and
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eyebrows and middle part of
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your forehead into that third
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eye chakra. and leave some
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there and push that energy and
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attention and focus into your
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crown chakra. and leave it.
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Now, we will move on to our
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7777 chakra energizing,
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breathing where we’ll breathe
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in on a seven count. we will
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hold for a seven count, We’ll
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breathe out on the seven count
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and we will hold that for a
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seven count and we will do
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three repetitions, No break in
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between. Uh we’ll go right into
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the next one. energy and
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intention and focus at the
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crowd. hearts and minds all
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clear. Breathe in your
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creativity.
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Hold your consciousness.
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breathe out your confidence.
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and hold your commerce.
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breathe in your prosperity.
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or purpose.
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breathe out your positivity.
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and hold your positive
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production.
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breathe in your commitment.
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Hold your consistency.
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breathe out your compassion.
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and hold your curiosity.
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energy and attention and focus
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back to the crown chakra. in
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your mind’s eye view. Imagine
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yourself as you see yourself.
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Now, full body
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and right above that crown
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chakra. Imagine a light
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It doesn’t matter what color.
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the light Imagine the light.
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Reach up. in your mind’s eye
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view. and connect with the
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light.
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feel the frequency and
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vibration. of the light. become
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one with the frequency and
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vibration. of the light.
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Hold it there. Breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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Pull that light down to where
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it meets your crown chakra
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where your energy attention,
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and focus is Pull that light
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all the way down to where it is
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covering just the top portion
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of your head.
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Hold it
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there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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And hold
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Pull the light. Pull that
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energy. Attention, focus, and
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light down. Pull it down to
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where it is covering up your
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third eye chakra. Pull that
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light. pull that energy and
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attention and focus down to
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where it is at the top portion
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of your eyebrow region. Hold it
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there. breathe in,
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Pull that light down even
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further. Pull your energy.
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attention, focus, and like down
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over your eyebrows, over your
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eyes, over your nose, and ears
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and mouth and teeth and chin
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and pull it all the way down to
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where it is covering up your
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throat chakra. Pull that light
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all the way down to where it is
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at the base of your shoulders.
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and hold it there. breathe in.
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out.
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Now, pull that. Pull that
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energy and attention and focus
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and light down even further.
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Pull that energy, attention,
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focus, and lie down to where it
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is covering up your heart
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chakra. Pull it down to where
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it is in the middle portion of
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your brass plate region. and
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hold it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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and while we are there at the
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heart chakra, imagine your
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heart chakra like Through bud
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of a rose beginning to open and
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open up that heart chakra. One
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pedal at a time until it’s open
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and spinning. Open it up.
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Hold it there. Breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy,
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attention, and focus and like
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down even further. push it down
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to where it is covering up your
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solar plexus chakra. Push that
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energy attention, and focus and
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light down to where it is in
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the top covering the top
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portion of your stomach region
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Hold it there. breathe in,
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He’s out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light and
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energy and attention and focus
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down to where it is covering up
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your sacral chakra. Push that
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energy, attention, and focus
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and lie down to where it’s
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covering up your entire stomach
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region. and hold it there.
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Breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push your energy,
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attention, and focus and light
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down to where it covers up your
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root chakra. Push that energy
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and attention and focus and
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like down to where it’s
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covering up your hip region.
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and hold it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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out. push that energy and
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attention and focus and like
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down into your thighs. Push it
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down into your knees. Keep
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pushing it down into your
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calves and down into your
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ankles and down into your heels
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and around and down into your
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arches and all the way down
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into the tips of your toes.
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illuminating your entire mind’s
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eye, your body Hold it there.
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breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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enjoy your a illumination.
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now.
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Take the light. and expand the
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light out from your mind’s eye
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view body. become one with your
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mind’s eye view and then one
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with the universe Hold it
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there. And just as we did with
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the light, do that with your
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body. Expand your body out. out
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to become one with your mind’s
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eye view. Then, one with the
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light and then one with the
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universe.
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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The portal is open. Welcome to
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the Astro realm and your own
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personal manifestation and
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healing. avenue in the cosmos.
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take some time and fly around
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in your cabinet. and pick up
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every manifesting goal. desire
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and active pursuit that you
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desire to manifest and with
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your left hand, pick them up
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and put them in that open heart
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chakra. one by one. It doesn’t
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matter how many they are. Get
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every one of your manifesting
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goals. desires, and active
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pursuits with that left hand
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and put them in that open heart
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chakra.
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your healing opportunities are
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there as well and with your
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right hand pick up every
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healing opportunity and put it
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in that open heart chakra. One,
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Now with your left hand. put it
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on your heart chakra and with
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your right hand, put it on your
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left shoulder. as we energize
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and equip and empower every one
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of your manifesting goals.
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desires, and active pursuits
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and everyone of your healing
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opportunities. with the power
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of the cosmos.
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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feel them empowering. Feel them
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equipping. Feel them
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encouraging.
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now. go back to the light. and
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contract the light back down to
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where it is fully illuminating
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your mind’s eye view body.
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and hold it there. and just as
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we did with the light contract
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your body back down to its
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original mind’s eye view size.
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hope.
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with your energy and attention
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and focus and the light at your
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toes. We’re going to push the
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light up and out So, push that
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energy and attention and focus
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and light into your arches push
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that energy and attention and
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focus and light into your
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heels.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light into your
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ankles. push that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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into your calves. push that
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energy and attention and focus
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and light into your knees.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus in life. into your
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thighs. and push that energy
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and attention and focus in
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life. into your hips.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light into your
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root chakra and hold it there.
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Breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light up into
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your sacral chakra and hold it
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there. breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light up into
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your solar plexus chakra and
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hold it there. Breath in.
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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up to into that open heart
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chakra where you’re energized,
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equipped, and empowered.
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Manifesting goals, desires, and
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active pursuits and your
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healing opportunities are
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waiting and hold it there.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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attention, focus, and light and
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you’re energized and equipped
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and empowered, manifesting
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goals, desires, and active
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pursuits and healing
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opportunities up into your
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throat chakra and hold them
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there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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attention, and focus and light
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and energize and equipped and
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empowered, manifesting goals,
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desires, and active pursuits
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and your healing opportunities
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over your chin and your teeth
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and mouth and nose and ears and
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eyes and up into that third eye
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chakra. and hold it there
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breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy.
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Attention, focus, and light and
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energized and equipped and
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empowered manifesting and
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desires, and active pursuits in
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your healing opportunities. up
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into and out of your crown
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chakra and let the stars
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illuminate your mind’s eye view
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like the stars Hold it there.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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Enjoy the energized and
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equipped and empowered.
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manifesting goals, desires, and
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active pursuits and healing
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opportunities to reign in your
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experience.
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now. as we start rubbing our
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hands together, locking in the
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cosmic goodness and the soul
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energy that we just
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accumulated. and as we prepare
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to come back to the now, we’re
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going to take three deep
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breaths. We’re going to breathe
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in through the nose, hold it,
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and release. We’re going to do
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three of those as we continue
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to rub our hands together,
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breathe in,
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and release. Keep rubbing your
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hands together. Breathe in.
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Hold and release.
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Last one. Breathe in.
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Hold and release. And with
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that, I want to thank everyone
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for being here. This is on the
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seventh with PB Metatron. I ask
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that each one of us if you are
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not driving a car, get up right
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where you are. shake your legs,
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clap your hands, do something,
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move around. just let your body
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know that your back in stride
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again. I’ll be right back.
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Greetings everyone. Greetings
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everyone. How’s everyone today?
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Don’t everybody have to talk at
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once But how’s everyone today?
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It’s good to have everybody
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here. See all these smiling
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faces? I know they’re smiling
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faces behind all those pictures
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and it is my honor to be here
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today. I want to jump straight
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in to the lesson today. We’re
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talking about the Intellectual
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Self. Uh know that the
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Intellectual Self is aligned
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with the throat chakra. Uh we
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know that it is home to our
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learning capacity. Uh we know
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that it determines how and what
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we learn and communicate and we
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also know that it’s through the
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intellectual self which we
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express whatever our truth is
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Today, I want to uh talk about
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the art of effective
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intelligent communication.
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the art. of effective
46:05
intelligent. communication. Um
46:11
I always uh
46:15
say this to folks. Um I speak
46:19
my truth and I say what I must
46:23
say. I never say what I have to
46:25
I say what I must say and all
46:29
the time is it it doesn’t it’s
46:32
it’s most of the time every
46:34
time it’s ointment but sometime
46:35
it come with a punch and um
46:42
II always say this that it’s
46:43
not what you say. as much as it
46:48
is how they hear it. Let me go
46:53
back over that again. It’s not
46:57
what you say. as much as it is.
47:00
how the other person, the other
47:03
entity, the other situation,
47:06
how they heard it,
47:11
II. you know II always. Uh I
47:15
live a lifestyle now that that
47:17
I don’t do things that I need
47:21
to ask your forgiveness for. I
47:24
don’t do anything that I need
47:25
to apologize Anything
47:28
intentional that I need to
47:29
apologize for
47:33
However, I have uh for a long
47:36
time, I have used this as an
47:40
apology and I was told recently
47:41
that it’s really not an
47:42
apology, You know, I apologize
47:46
how that sounded
47:52
Are we really sorry for what we
47:53
say? I apologize. I didn’t
47:57
sound it. Yeah. effective,
48:01
intelligent communication. Uh
48:04
uh I’m going to give y’all. I’m
48:06
going to give y’all the secret
48:07
to it. The secret to effective
48:10
communication is keeping it
48:12
hot. HOT keeping it hot.
48:19
honest,
48:22
open. transparent. Doesn’t
48:28
matter what your educational
48:30
level doesn’t matter if you
48:31
got, you know, 4011, 1000° from
48:34
Harvard and all Ivy League
48:35
schools or if you barely made
48:36
it through your public school,
48:39
intelligent communication is
48:41
hot. for all of us. Honest
48:46
open, transparent, Let’s get to
48:53
that honesty thing because I
48:55
am. I am. I am a proponent of
48:59
this Uh I love uh that
49:04
scripture in the Bible that
49:06
says, you shall know the truth
49:08
and the truth shall make you
49:12
free. Folks grew up here in the
49:15
the preacher say set and they
49:17
stop reading it for themselves
49:18
but if you actually go and read
49:21
that passage on your own, it
49:25
says that you shall know the
49:27
truth and the truth shall make
49:32
you So, I want to start off
49:35
with the truth is the truth
49:36
always makes you free and it’s
49:39
always appropriate
49:44
Y’all get what I’m saying With
49:46
that. The truth. always makes
49:49
the communicator. This is this
49:51
is how we communicate the truth
49:55
always makes the speaker free
50:00
and it’s always appropriate
50:02
regardless how it sounds
50:06
regardless of how it sounds,
50:07
the truth is always
50:08
appropriate. Uh III. grew up
50:14
with a grandmother that would
50:15
never tolerate lying I learned
50:20
very early on that I didn’t
50:23
have to remember the truth. The
50:27
truth is just is it’s the same
50:29
Yesterday, it was 2 years ago,
50:32
10, years ago, 100, years ago.
50:35
The truth is the truth, the
50:36
truth never changes. regardless
50:42
if you like it or or not,
50:44
there’s a bunch of truths going
50:45
on uh and there are many truths
50:48
and there are many sides to
50:50
every truth. You know, uh uh
50:54
folks want to say there’s two
50:55
sides to every truth. There are
50:56
literally at least 144 sides to
51:01
each truth depends on where
51:04
you’re seeing it from and your
51:05
perspective and your
51:07
understanding of it. Uh there
51:09
is no absolute there is there
51:13
is 144 sides to every truth.
51:17
However, those 144 sides never
51:20
change. regardless if you like
51:22
it or not.
51:26
being truthful is a sign of
51:30
integrity. We know a lot of
51:35
folks that we we listen to and
51:38
and we follow and and and we
51:41
get caught up in Emotional
51:44
rhetoric. You know, preachers
51:45
are good at that but you know,
51:47
who’s better as politicians,
51:50
Politicians are good at getting
51:52
us whipped up with Emotional
51:55
rhetoric and it may not be the
52:01
truth. because they can change
52:06
their rhetoric after they get
52:07
what they want. Most
52:08
politicians, they promise you
52:10
to give you a chicken in every
52:11
pot if you elect me and then
52:12
when you elect me, then I’m
52:14
going to charge you $100 for
52:15
the pot
52:19
wasn’t really the truth. I
52:21
wasn’t going to give you a
52:22
ticket. Anyway, I just wanted
52:24
to vote The truth never
52:26
changes. If if if if I broke,
52:30
if I broke something 10 years
52:34
ago, I broke it today I’ll I’ll
52:37
still tell the same story. I
52:38
broke it. I did that. I did it.
52:41
I did it. Whether I liked it or
52:43
not. I learned that telling the
52:46
truth was much easier. I only
52:47
got one **** whooping If I told
52:49
the truth. If I lied, I got the
52:53
whooping for what I did and
52:55
then I got a couple of
52:57
whoopings for lying. So, I was
52:59
like, well, no, I’d rather take
53:00
one **** whooping than a
53:01
multitude for the same thing.
53:04
Truth never changes, never
53:05
changes. no matter no matter
53:07
who’s speaking it, no matter
53:09
where it’s coming from, the
53:10
truth never changes. Practice
53:13
being brutally honest and start
53:17
with yourself. That’s where all
53:21
of it starts with ourselves. If
53:25
you if me, if we cannot be
53:30
truthful with ourselves, What?
53:33
What do you think everybody
53:34
else going to get
53:39
The truth never changes.
53:42
regardless if you like it or
53:44
not.
53:47
I have a question and if the
53:50
truth never changes, doesn’t
53:51
that make it? Absolutely no.
53:52
There’s no absolute because
53:54
there’s too many sides to it
53:55
because what is true? What is
53:58
one side of truth for you? I
54:02
have another side of the truth.
54:04
That is is the truth for and it
54:05
may contradict between you and
54:07
just because of our perception.
54:09
So, there’s no absolute truth
54:11
that the uh uh there’s there
54:14
are absolutes
54:17
sun rises in the east sets in
54:22
the but that’s not an absolute
54:24
truth because as soon as the
54:25
polls shift again, then the sun
54:28
will rise in the west and the
54:30
east So, We have to be really
54:37
really careful when we start
54:38
claiming and standing on
54:41
absolutes claiming and and and
54:44
making something when we fall
54:46
into uh a dangerous trap when
54:48
we want to make something an
54:51
absolute truth. That means that
54:52
anyone that doesn’t believe it
54:55
like you is wrong and I don’t I
54:58
don’t buy into that. I don’t I
55:00
don’t buy into that that a
55:02
divergent opinion makes me
55:05
wrong.
55:08
You
55:08
understand what I mean? I
55:09
mean, I don’t I don’t perfect
55:15
example here in in Las Vegas.
55:17
Today is overcast and cloudy
55:21
and some people will look up
55:23
and say, oh, it’s so gloomy Oh,
55:26
it’s cloudy. It’s miserable and
55:28
I look up and say, well, the
55:29
sun is shining behind the
55:31
clouds. sun always shines even
55:34
on a rainy day. the sun shines.
55:37
we can’t see it because the
55:38
clouds obscure it. So, my
55:40
perspective is different than
55:43
the person who’s looking only
55:44
at the clouds and they’re true
55:47
that they have a truth that is
55:48
gloomy and and you can’t see
55:49
the sun and all of that. Yes.
55:52
Yes. Actually absolutes are
55:55
relative. Yes. it’s relative to
55:58
you and the situation
56:02
So, first part, first important
56:05
part of effective,
56:07
Intellectual, intelligent
56:09
communication is be truthful,
56:11
be honest,
56:15
To be honest, even if it hurts
56:17
you, be honest. Number two.
56:25
We’ve seen this a lot. Uh those
56:26
of us that parents and raise
56:30
children. this this is where
56:31
number two comes from but it we
56:33
we do this as adults as well.
56:35
Avoid back stories Get to the
56:38
point. You you know what I
56:41
mean? Uh uh uh uh a vase. You
56:45
you come home from work. You
56:47
got three kids. You come home
56:48
from work and a vase is broken
56:49
in the middle of the floor. You
56:53
ask the kids, how does it get
56:54
broke? They’re going to give
56:56
you a backstory. Oh, what do
56:58
you see? Uh first, what
57:00
happened? You know, I was at
57:01
school and then I came home.
57:04
Yeah. Oh yeah. How did this get
57:06
broke? Get to the point. Get to
57:10
the point When you when you
57:13
give a bunch of fluff, it makes
57:14
it seem like you’re avoiding
57:16
something you avoiding
57:18
something. If you need
57:20
medicine, go ahead and take it.
57:21
If you need relief, go ahead
57:23
and take the telling. The truth
57:25
is heaving, man. It’s
57:29
relieving. Avoid the backstory
57:33
when it all possible, Sometime
57:34
backstory are necessary. I’m
57:36
I’m not saying every situation.
57:38
You should avoid a backstory
57:39
but when you are, when you want
57:41
to effectively and
57:43
intelligently communicate with
57:44
somebody, avoid the backstory.
57:46
You’re straight to the point.
57:47
cut out all of the going around
57:50
the world around the around the
57:51
bush. You still gotta come
57:54
right back to the front. Who?
57:57
Who? Who here? Values direct
58:03
communication.
58:07
I do. me. I totally prefer it
58:10
but I do actually have a hard
58:12
time ditching it out because
58:16
I’m so concerned about how it’s
58:17
going to make them feel
58:19
especially if it’s something I
58:21
know they’re not going to like.
58:23
Well, then you need to you need
58:25
to adopt my apology. I
58:27
apologize how you heard that.
58:31
Yeah.
58:34
If you don’t say it, how does
58:36
it make you feel? worse. So, so
58:42
you would rather make yourself
58:44
feel worse than and and
58:47
someone’s may or may not hurt
58:48
feelings but you have to make
58:50
yourself feel worse. You see
58:52
that? It’s I think it’s just
58:55
I’ve conditioned to be that way
58:57
as a, you know, growing up and
59:00
learning how to please
59:01
everybody else and not myself.
59:03
So, it’s it’s a new, it’s a
59:05
newfound thing. Good. Um uh
59:07
which I’m practicing doing and
59:10
I try to do it with, you know,
59:11
as gently as I can but the
59:15
bottom line like I’m going to
59:16
go out tonight and hear some
59:18
live music and I’ve never went
59:21
out dancing by myself or with
59:23
anyone actually but I am going
59:26
to do it tonight. I’m 46 years
59:27
old. My goodness, I’m a I’m a
59:30
big girl. I should be able to
59:31
do all those things and and I’m
59:34
finding myself struggling to
59:36
not feel like I’m doing
59:37
something wrong because uh you
59:40
know, I invited my fiance to go
59:42
of course, he can’t go and so
59:45
I’ve extended the invitation to
59:48
others and anyway, it it’s just
59:52
weird how I find myself feeling
59:56
like like I’m doing something
59:58
wrong and I’m not even doing
59:59
anything wrong. Absolutely. See
60:01
uh uh uh my life uh a wonderful
60:04
life. It is uh I
60:09
the prevails of obligatory love
60:12
coming from you. Uh you feel
60:15
obligated and you feel you feel
60:19
compelled to stay in that good
60:23
little girl box because you
60:25
were taught whoever taught you.
60:27
what a good little girl was.
60:31
You’re you’re obligated. You
60:32
feel obligated to stay in that
60:34
box and you’re scared to death
60:35
to jump outside of that box
60:37
because you don’t want to be
60:39
judged by right? But do you
60:41
know that only you’re the only
60:43
one that can judge you? Yeah.
60:46
Yeah. That’s actually, I didn’t
60:48
think of that but you’re right.
60:49
That makes perfect sense.
60:51
You’re the only one that can
60:52
judge you. So. and you ever
60:55
think about it like this, the
60:56
person who who told you the ins
61:01
and outs of being a good little
61:03
girl. Did you ever think that
61:03
maybe they didn’t tell you all
61:05
of the truth or maybe they
61:07
didn’t tell you the right
61:08
stuff? Yeah, I’m pretty sure of
61:11
that because I’m still waiting
61:13
on the bad manual. I have yet
61:16
to see the father Manuel III.
61:20
Got a bunch of ladies on here.
61:22
Is there a mother’s manual for
61:23
y’all? Because I was II checked
61:25
Amazon. I checked borders. I
61:28
checked the library. There’s no
61:30
manual on how to do this thing.
61:33
We do the best we can with what
61:35
we have and what we know and
61:38
then as we get older, we we
61:41
weigh what we were taught
61:44
versus our own logic and common
61:46
sense. That’s all we got. We
61:48
don’t have no man and nobody.
61:49
There’s no perfect dad.
61:51
Perfect. There are a hell of a
61:54
lot of great dads and moms. and
61:58
each one of them dads and moms
61:59
is perfect for them kids but a
62:02
perfect dad or a perfect mom.
62:04
No, ain’t no mold for that
62:06
Ain’t no more. We we have been
62:08
told we have been told so much
62:12
disinformation growing up. that
62:16
it’s amazing how some of us
62:18
ain’t walking around here with
62:19
eggs scrambled and just some of
62:21
the stuff We were told and some
62:24
of the stuff we were made to do
62:26
and conform with as kids as
62:29
kids. I’m glad you guys
62:31
appreciate it. I’m glad there’s
62:32
a few that appreciate folks
62:34
that get to the point in some
62:35
direct communication. Uh number
62:38
three, number three, uh check
62:42
your intentions.
62:46
In other words, ask yourself
62:49
before you start. ask yourself,
62:51
what is my purpose? for
62:54
speaking on this or that?
62:58
What’s the end goal? Am I just
63:01
talking just to disturb some
63:02
**** Do I want to push an
63:06
emotional trigger? Do I want to
63:08
push a button? Do I want to be
63:10
vengeful? Am I being negative?
63:11
Am I being purposefully
63:13
hurtful? Or do I really need
63:16
clarity on this? And I really
63:18
want to open, honest, and
63:19
transparent conversation about
63:21
this If anybody got any
63:24
thoughts about checking your
63:25
attention before you just and
63:28
these are the four. These are
63:30
not just for uh uh uh uh uh
63:33
intimate relationship. These
63:34
are all of our communications.
63:36
I mean, all of them
63:38
communication with our
63:39
coworkers folks we see on the
63:41
bus folks. we walk up and down
63:43
the street, check anybody check
63:46
their attention before they
63:47
just boom or do you just
63:53
with no concern about your own
63:55
intentions. You see, we can
63:59
just by checking our
64:01
intentions, we get to determine
64:04
how the vibration of the
64:07
communication is going to go if
64:10
I check my intentions, if if if
64:13
I know I’m coming from a place
64:15
of true wanting to know and to
64:20
clear up all of the uh
64:25
malfunctions. Yes. Uh Sharon,
64:27
see your head up. You did. I
64:31
just had a light bulb moment
64:33
because I was talking to
64:34
someone earlier today and it
64:37
was for me, it was just mouth
64:39
vomit. So, I never thought
64:42
about thinking first before I
64:45
think it’s just like it just
64:48
comes out and think about my
64:52
intentions before I speak.
64:55
Absolutely. I’ve never done
65:00
I know it. I seem like some
65:02
people might be getting an
65:03
epiphany for that. Some people,
65:06
this is a novel. This is a new
65:07
concept. What do you mean? I
65:08
gotta think before I speak, I’m
65:09
just going to run off and just
65:11
say, I mostly think of my
65:16
intentions when I’m texting if
65:19
I’m having a conversation that
65:21
texting and then I’ll type up a
65:22
message and then I’ll delete it
65:24
and then I’ll type it up and
65:25
then I’ll delete it and then
65:27
I’ll type it out and then I’ll
65:28
be like, okay, let’s get to the
65:29
bottom of what are you trying
65:30
to say and don’t be just
65:33
throwing something out there
65:34
because you want to be a ****
65:36
and you want to, you know,
65:37
absolutely. You want them to
65:39
trip on their You want to trip
65:42
them up? Don’t don’t. do you
65:44
know what are what are you
65:46
really trying? What is the
65:48
point of what you’re trying to
65:49
get across that part right
65:51
there? Yeah, that’s if you if
65:55
you do not know what your
65:59
conclusion is for all of this,
66:00
then don’t say it. Don’t don’t
66:04
even engage don’t even engage.
66:08
because you lose your
66:10
effectiveness and you really
66:13
lose the intelligent part of
66:14
communication when you don’t
66:16
check your intentions and you
66:18
just still blew a line and you
66:20
have no idea where it’s going
66:20
in at this point, we we get in
66:24
conversations and we get in our
66:25
interactions and we may not
66:28
even think about our intentions
66:30
and the next thing you know,
66:31
it’s done went somewhere
66:33
totally where it wasn’t even
66:35
expecting to go and and then
66:38
then one or both of us are like
66:41
Got our butt hurt and our
66:43
feelings is hurt and we’re
66:45
looking at each other like And
66:49
that wasn’t even, that wasn’t
66:50
either person’s intent but we
66:51
didn’t think we just started.
66:54
Bam bam, bam bam As was saying,
66:58
I think I’m more conscious when
67:00
I’m texting because I’ve got
67:02
burned more when I’m texting.
67:05
Absolutely. Yeah. It’s been
67:06
much more miscommunication and
67:09
texting than me expressing to
67:11
myself verbally. So, I will
67:14
actually think about what I
67:15
say. when I’m speaking to to
67:17
someone One on one live. Thank
67:21
you. Thank you for that. I got
67:24
a rule. You guys on that
67:25
texting. If you and the person
67:27
you’re texting with or texting
67:29
on three different subjects
67:31
hang up and call
67:35
Yeah. Sometimes people
67:37
misunderstand the tone. Yes.
67:39
But they have their tone in
67:40
their own mind of what you’re
67:42
saying and you may be further
67:44
from that than what they’re
67:47
they’re not even in the same
67:48
ball field. Absolutely.
67:51
Absolutely. Absolutely. I mean,
67:54
because a text, you know,
67:56
somebody ask you how you
67:57
feeling and you can say, I’m
67:59
okay and. okay, it could be I’m
68:01
okay or I’m okay. You don’t you
68:03
can get no inflection from a
68:07
text. you know,
68:11
Check your intentions before
68:13
you start talking on this or
68:15
that. Check yourself. Why am I
68:18
doing this? Why? What do I,
68:20
what do I what do what am I
68:22
going to accomplish by going
68:24
there with this? What’s my end
68:26
goal? that will keep you from
68:29
saying some craziness and and
68:32
allowing a simple conversation
68:35
of did you get the milk to turn
68:39
into now I’m a no good raggedy.
68:41
can’t remember **** and yeah I
68:43
just went from and uh yeah and
68:45
that wasn’t the intent It
68:49
wasn’t the intent. Number four,
68:53
transparency and uh uh
68:58
Let me give y’all a disclaimer
69:00
in in and when we start getting
69:02
into numerology and astrology
69:05
and the card sciences later on
69:07
in the Intellectual Self, I
69:09
give us some some uh
69:11
characteristics about certain
69:13
numbers my first step. my my
69:17
first step is a seven Sevens
69:22
are private. I don’t want you
69:25
to know my business. I’m not
69:28
going to let you know my
69:29
business That doesn’t stop me
69:32
from being transparent in
69:34
communicating Now, I don’t post
69:41
anything about my personal life
69:44
on social media because it’s
69:46
nobody’s business. It’s not
69:48
because I’m hiding this or
69:50
hiding that People know, you
69:52
guys know who I am. I ain’t
69:55
hiding **** I ain’t posting my
69:58
business on social media. You
69:59
want to know, Call me. the
70:02
people who are in my circle.
70:04
Know what the **** is going on
70:06
with me. The good, the bad, the
70:09
ugly, and the unexpected. I’m
70:13
transparent if I’m not feeling
70:15
good, I will tell you, I’m not
70:17
feeling good. If I schedule an
70:21
appointment with you yesterday
70:23
for tomorrow and then something
70:25
comes up tomorrow, I will tell
70:28
you, hey, something came up
70:32
transparency III. Okay.
70:34
remember this old saying uh it
70:36
was in a song or a poem or
70:38
something. Uh tell me no
70:40
secrets and I’ll tell you no
70:41
lies. It’s some uh didn’t
70:43
Fleetwood Mac have a have a
70:45
lyric or something like that.
70:46
I’m changing that uh um some
70:49
one of them one of them uh 70s
70:51
group that was in in one of
70:53
their songs. I’m changing that
70:54
up a little bit. if I have no
70:58
secrets I can tell No lies.
71:03
That’s why I don’t have a
71:05
problem with telling anybody. I
71:06
want to know. Yeah, I smoke
71:07
crack before. Sure did plenty
71:10
of it. I’ve smoked plenty of
71:12
it. Been drunk many times.
71:14
smoked weed. Yes. And uh uh II
71:18
ain’t a thief but I stole stuff
71:21
before. Sure have What? stole
71:25
money out of my grandmother’s
71:25
purse? Sure did a few times.
71:28
Not just once. transparent. Uh
71:31
you ask me what I like. I’ll
71:32
tell you but most most of y’all
71:34
that’s in my circle know I
71:36
don’t want nothing cooked with
71:37
curry. Can’t stand it. That’s
71:40
just me. But you know that
71:42
because I’m transparent and
71:45
those people in my circle, I
71:47
tell them everything about me.
71:49
That is important.
71:55
People don’t need to know. why
71:58
I change jobs every two and a
72:01
half years. Ain’t none of your
72:02
business. Why I did that. just
72:05
know that I worked all them
72:07
jobs. That’s good enough but
72:10
I’m but transparency. You see
72:12
if if if especially and I’m
72:15
really zeroing in on intimate
72:18
one-on-one relationships with
72:20
this one right here. If two
72:23
people who are who are
72:26
quarantine each other and
72:28
wanting to be with each other.
72:30
if y’all can’t be transparent,
72:33
what’s the point. Exactly.
72:41
What is the point? It doesn’t
72:44
seem like there is one to be
72:46
honest. Most guys, most guys,
72:50
they don’t like this word
72:52
transparency because it’s it’s
72:54
really a softer word for
72:56
vulnerable Most guys guys don’t
72:59
want face their
73:00
vulnerabilities. I don’t give a
73:01
**** about it myself because I
73:03
know in my vulnerabilities is
73:05
my power and by stepping into
73:08
them and recognizing them and
73:10
confront the ones I need to
73:12
confront and build up the ones
73:14
I need to build up. I am more
73:16
powerful than one that’s
73:18
walking around acting like
73:19
ain’t nothing wrong with you
73:20
and you’re Superman N Steel and
73:22
**** bounce off. you know,
73:23
don’t bounce off of me. I’m
73:26
moody. I’m sensitive. You say
73:28
the wrong thing to me. you’re
73:29
going to get cussed out and if
73:30
you walk up to me swinging your
73:32
arms, you’re going to get
73:33
punched. For real, for real.
73:37
I’m going to go out looking for
73:38
a fight but if a fight come my
73:39
way, it’s get it don’t get past
73:41
me at fifty-eight. I’m still
73:43
ready to come knock somebody
73:45
out. That’s what I’m being
73:47
vulnerable right now. I’m
73:48
telling y’all that I that
73:50
that’s a thing for me. I have a
73:53
thing about people just talking
73:54
crazy to me and saying any
73:56
other type of thing. I’ll I’ll
73:57
get you to uh since December.
74:00
31st 2015, Nobody gets a pass
74:02
no more. You say crazy **** to
74:05
me. If you’re going to get your
74:06
wig blown back, I’m not giving
74:08
you a pass anymore. That’s one
74:12
of my vulnerabilities. So, if
74:13
you already know that, then
74:15
just don’t come up here talking
74:16
crazy to me but if you do know
74:18
that I’m going to talk crazy
74:19
right back
74:23
Transparency is important.
74:24
Transparency gets you out of
74:26
ego. My ego is sitting back
74:30
here in the corner saying, man,
74:32
dawg, why you tell people you
74:33
smoke crack? Because I did. I
74:36
did.
74:39
I did. There’s enough people
74:40
still alive that I’ve got high
74:43
that know it.
74:47
So, if I come on here and say,
74:48
no, I never did it. There’s at
74:49
least one person still alive
74:50
that I have with So, I’d rather
74:54
be transparent. I’d rather tell
74:55
on myself then you don’t have
74:59
no power to hold something over
75:01
me and have me feeling like I
75:03
got a tow the line because if
75:04
not, you’re going to tell a
75:06
secret on me and no, I’m
75:07
telling my own secrets.
75:11
transparency. I’ll tell you
75:13
what makes me happy. I’ll tell
75:14
you what makes me sad. I tell
75:16
you what my what my yeses are
75:17
and I’ll tell you what, my nos
75:19
are and I’m okay with a
75:26
discussion that comes up out of
75:28
me telling you my yes and nos
75:30
that they contradict with with
75:32
your yeses and nos. I’m okay
75:34
with that because we can
75:36
effectively and intelligently
75:39
communicate because I told the
75:40
truth, I got to the point and I
75:43
checked my intentions. So,
75:45
we’re we’re now. even if we
75:47
have a disagreement, we can
75:48
still effectively and
75:51
intelligently communicate
75:55
Number five. if flash win it
76:01
goes left. Every conversation
76:04
not going to go left thumb will
76:06
some will if slash when it goes
76:09
left. Stay respectful. Stay
76:14
respectful. No need to talk to
76:18
folks. Is clothes. No need to
76:20
call anyone anything other than
76:23
the name that their mama gave
76:24
them or the name they picked
76:26
for themselves.
76:31
Stay respectful. not so much
76:34
worrying about the other
76:35
person. Stay respectful to
76:37
yourself. What good does it do
76:41
when some go left to just keep
76:44
throwing on it and getting
76:46
disrespectful and you you want
76:48
a episode of snapped to break
76:50
out? You want an episode of
76:52
cops to show up?
76:56
When we when we when we go left
77:00
and sometimes going left is
77:02
necessary. Sometimes going left
77:04
is necessary Uh uh in some of
77:05
my more heated conversations,
77:08
I’ve spoken and heard the truth
77:17
When you get mad, you you you
77:20
say you you say all that ****
77:22
that you’ve been wanting to say
77:23
but you I’m going to keep it
77:25
together. I’m going to be the
77:26
good guy. I’m going to be the
77:27
good girl. I’m going to keep it
77:29
together. get mad, let it go
77:31
left and it’s alright to say
77:36
those those things that you’ve
77:39
been holding Just stay
77:44
respectful because I’m kind of
77:45
like this. If I’m calling you
77:47
all kind of bees and hoes and
77:49
talking up under your dress and
77:51
eventually, we get over this.
77:53
How am I going to come back and
77:56
and and expect You know what
77:59
I’m talking about? How am I
78:00
going to do that? How can I
78:01
come back and ask for Yeah.
78:05
After I didn’t call you all of
78:06
that. How how does that make
78:09
How does it make you feel when
78:12
you get called something other
78:13
than your name and then 2 hours
78:16
later, now, you won’t make up.
78:17
Wait, wait, wait a minute. You
78:19
wait. you call me a raggedy
78:21
**** and now you want to kiss.
78:23
Get out of here. Get out of
78:26
here.
78:31
I think about that. I know I’m
78:34
not the only one that thinks
78:36
about that.
78:40
If when it goes left. stay
78:44
respectful. That’s effective.
78:48
Intelligent communication. You
78:49
can scream all you want. Shout
78:55
all you want.
78:58
Stay respectful.
79:00
Number six.
79:07
start. Okay. If you already
79:12
know the answer to the
79:15
question, you’re going to ask
79:18
Start with that. Instead of
79:22
Okay. perfect. Example. We got
79:24
we got uh uh a spousal
79:27
situation, uh intimate
79:28
situation and the partner who
79:30
is communicating has
79:35
discovered that the other
79:37
partner is having an affair.
79:42
You already have evidence. of
79:48
this affair.
79:53
instead of approaching the
79:57
situation and asking, are you
79:58
cheating on me? First of all,
80:02
you’re not going to get the
80:03
honest answer and you’re going
80:04
to put somebody on defense Why
80:07
don’t you start with what you
80:11
already know which is
80:17
Get your phone number and send
80:19
all these texts to you.
80:25
How did Billy? How is Billy in
80:28
your phone with texts?
80:36
How did this person get your
80:39
number?
80:43
See, when we when we we have to
80:46
avoid those. What is wrong with
80:48
you? and and why you **** up?
80:51
No. How how did this, how did
80:55
this text show up on your
80:57
phone?
81:00
how this Email get here.
81:11
start with what you know. Don’t
81:13
accuse. Don’t accuse because
81:18
accusing somebody. that’s the
81:19
quickest way to get a lie and
81:20
then it’s going to really go
81:21
left from the beginning. really
81:24
go left. Confront. Come in
81:28
front. Lay your evidence out.
81:32
No matter how you got the
81:33
evidence, lay it out and don’t
81:36
allow your your discovery to be
81:42
discounted with what you
81:44
shouldn’t have been going
81:45
through my phone where I went
81:47
through your phone So, what I
81:50
did on it. Yeah, I went through
81:54
your phone. Sure did. This is
81:56
what I found. How’d you get
81:58
your number? How did he get
82:00
your number? What’s this
82:02
talking about? Uh uh y’all have
82:04
fun last night. You said you
82:05
had to work last night.
82:11
that’s effective and
82:13
intelligent communication. Now,
82:14
are you cheating on me? No.
82:16
Yes, you are. No, I’m not. You
82:18
always bring this up.
82:25
There’s a record right there.
82:29
You
82:30
want this to be effective.
82:33
You don’t want to walk away
82:34
from from your communication,
82:37
scratching your head like what
82:38
what really happened right
82:39
there? What? What?
82:45
What happened right there? Uh
82:47
even worse. you don’t want to
82:49
walk away feeling you’re the
82:51
one that’s wrong.
82:58
Start with what you already
83:01
know. Go in on the offensive
83:07
Don’t give in a situation like
83:10
that. Don’t give them an
83:11
opportunity to tell you a lie.
83:14
Most folks, most folks
83:16
generally are honest people
83:20
given the given the convenient
83:24
opportunity most people will
83:25
like about a little stupid,
83:28
silly **** that don’t even mean
83:29
nothing. don’t even mean
83:33
nothing.
83:37
Overall, most people uh I
83:39
believe most folks are
83:42
genuinely and generally honest
83:46
However, when you get caught in
83:48
your **** most of them will
83:50
lie. You don’t believe me or
83:54
you’re lying eyes. You can see
83:55
him doing some **** They’re
83:57
still lying. Start with what
84:01
you already know. And the last
84:04
one, if you don’t know
84:10
what you are talking about.
84:16
STFU.
84:22
I’m serious. I’m I’m I’m I’m so
84:26
serious. If you have no clue
84:30
about the content, about the
84:31
subject, about the event, about
84:34
whatever happened, shut your
84:37
damn mouth. You need a with
84:40
that one. Just shut up. Come
84:43
on. Come on. Uh uh Sharon, talk
84:45
to us about that. You need a
84:48
bullhorn with that one because
84:50
I think some people just like
84:52
to hear themselves talk and
84:54
others. III have no idea why
84:58
they can’t say I don’t know. I
85:02
feel it’s powerful. It’s very
85:03
powerful. You will not catch
85:05
them and I’m saying this for
85:06
me, I know people like this
85:08
like you will not catch them
85:09
saying, I don’t know. They will
85:11
make up something just to have
85:15
something to say. Yeah. I’ve
85:19
know some folks like that too
85:20
and it’s amazing. It’s amazing.
85:23
Uh either that either they’ll
85:25
make up something just to have
85:27
something to say or if you say
85:29
that uh you uh uh uh uh
85:34
wrestled a bear to the ground,
85:36
they’ll say they wrestle too.
85:40
Gotta I gotta outdo you. If you
85:43
don’t know what you’re talking
85:44
about, just shut up.
85:50
that is much more effective and
85:51
intelligent. than jumping into
85:54
a conversation. Uh that really
85:57
really you have no business
85:59
even being in
86:03
Anybody got any comments? I
86:06
thank everybody for being here.
86:07
You’re right, David. That he
86:09
ain’t no joke. I wouldn’t I
86:10
would never be able to go
86:13
through anyone’s phone. So, I
86:15
feel like if they’re cheating,
86:17
they’re cheating and that’s on
86:19
them and whatever and I’ve been
86:22
there done that before. so and
86:26
actually, I was accusing the
86:27
other person. Meanwhile, I was
86:29
already fantasizing of doing it
86:31
myself. Yeah. So, the
86:34
accusations really came from my
86:35
own guilt. Absolutely. my
86:37
opinion but um yeah, I just
86:42
don’t I feel like being
86:43
suspicious and doing those
86:45
things makes you crazy. It’s
86:46
just a when I was more
86:50
insecure. I it makes it
86:52
literally makes you go crazy.
86:54
So, I definitely am happy to be
86:57
moving away from that more and
87:02
um moving into a place where
87:04
you know, everybody’s free to
87:05
do what they want. Absolutely.
87:07
That’s the reason that I’m
87:08
going out tonight. I’m I look
87:09
at it like this. I look at it
87:12
like this
87:16
and allowed. to be me. Guess
87:20
what? Everybody else is allowed
87:21
to be you. Y’all if if II
87:25
cannot, I can’t expect anyone
87:30
anything differently than I
87:32
expect myself to be and I’m
87:33
going to always be
87:34
authentically me
87:39
I can’t. Yeah, I’m not holding
87:41
anybody to anything other than
87:42
just be you. B. Look somewhere.
87:47
I saw this. This this somewhere
87:49
uh on a meme or something. Be
87:51
yourself. Everybody else is
87:52
taken Everybody else is taking
87:56
Doctor. please chime in please.
87:59
Doctor TI know you got
88:00
something to say about this.
88:03
Unmute yourself. Unmute
88:04
yourself.
88:08
about the cheating **** peck or
88:10
if you don’t know what you’re
88:11
talking about, shut the up. All
88:12
of that. Just about just about
88:14
all of this in any, I don’t
88:16
think uh I’m I’m for the hot
88:19
discussion. Um honest open, and
88:23
transparent and you know, I
88:27
also believe that some things
88:29
just don’t need to be
88:31
discussed. That part right
88:32
there. that part right there.
88:34
If you’ve dealt with issues in
88:36
your past or whatever, that’s
88:38
the past. Some things just need
88:39
to be left where they are.
88:42
Absolutely. I tell you on a
88:43
need to know basis I tell you
88:48
things about my life on a need
88:50
to know. Yeah. yeah. You know
88:51
what I’m saying? And and some
88:54
things folks don’t need to know
88:56
and you know what’s really
88:58
interesting because like
88:58
through the court process, I
89:00
want to touch on that. So, uh I
89:01
was talking with Barbara.
89:02
Barbara’s not on his phone so I
89:04
share, you know, things with
89:05
her in the past. Of course,
89:06
she’s like my girlfriend, you
89:07
know, we we’ve we’ve shared a
89:09
lot so it’s like how much do
89:13
you really give a person that
89:14
you’re coding or possibly going
89:16
to marry? How much is really
89:18
relevant If it’s in your past,
89:19
it’s not relevant to now why
89:22
and rehash all of that stuff
89:25
up. and just cause issues and
89:29
it ain’t important. It just
89:31
doesn’t make sense. The only
89:33
only thing about your past, I
89:34
want to know is have you healed
89:38
from your childhood trauma and
89:41
past toxic relationship
89:43
behaviors and attitudes. Other
89:45
than that, if you say yes, I’m
89:47
good to go. Yeah and your past
89:50
is shut. It is right because
89:51
I’m I’m not concerned with.
89:54
Look, if me and you meet today,
89:57
I don’t care what you did
89:59
yesterday or yesterday
90:00
backwards. I don’t care. It
90:02
doesn’t matter. I’m judging you
90:03
on who I’m seeing today and
90:05
what we’re going to do is we’re
90:07
going to build from today
90:08
forward. Don’t have nothing to
90:09
do with who you were. You’re
90:11
not who you are. you’re who you
90:13
are right now. Yeah. Yeah. So,
90:16
that’s what I had to say
90:17
because it’s like, okay, I’ve
90:20
been married before. You know,
90:22
and it’s like you go through
90:25
this. you you you go through
90:27
the issue. you you tell your
90:28
whole past to this person, then
90:30
you move on with your life.
90:33
It’s like, who wants to keep
90:34
bringing that pass to the next
90:36
relationship and so, you know,
90:40
be honest, the transparency and
90:42
openness deals with the right
90:44
now, the moment time. Yes, it
90:46
does. So, that’s I wanted to
90:49
say, well, thank you for
90:50
chiming in. Thank you for
90:51
chiming in. Uh anybody else do
90:55
you want to chime in? David,
90:57
you want to chime in? Anybody
90:59
else? Yeah. I mean, you just
91:01
got, you know, I’m sitting here
91:04
writing down stuff as I’m as
91:05
I’m listening, you know, it’s
91:07
uh as I was writing it down,
91:09
somebody you know, was saying,
91:11
you know what I was writing so.
91:12
Absolutely. It’s it’s it’s good
91:15
to be, you know, connected and
91:16
vibing with y’all and you know,
91:18
growing and stuff and
91:19
experience. Absolutely.
91:20
brother. We love you here, man.
91:21
We thank you. This is a vital
91:24
part. Everybody that’s on here
91:25
is a vital part of all of this.
91:28
Yeah it’s it’s a it’s a
91:29
collective vibration. Yeah it’s
91:31
I think it’s you know it’s you
91:32
know again I can identify with
91:34
a lot of what people are saying
91:36
but the people pleasing and you
91:37
know, not being your true
91:39
authentic self and I mean just
91:41
I was just thinking about like,
91:43
you know II like to play. No,
91:45
it’s not even play a game. I
91:47
just live my life where I make
91:49
that family feud wrong answer
91:50
sound like. Yeah. You know,
91:52
when people say should or uh
91:56
just I just want don’t just do
91:58
anything go all the way. You
92:00
know, you you should do this.
92:01
It’s like whoa whoa whoa I’m
92:03
not operating off your
92:04
playbook. Give me your
92:05
information and then let me
92:05
decide if I want to make that
92:07
choice. Absolutely. Absolutely.
92:09
My buzzword is try. Whenever I
92:12
hear somebody say try, I’m
92:13
like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
92:14
whoa, Just do it. Stop. Stop.
92:16
Do it because I give this
92:18
analogy. If I start hitting you
92:20
in the head with a brick, do
92:21
you want me to stop or try and
92:23
stop Yeah. you want me to stop
92:27
hitting you with that brick?
92:29
Absolutely, man. Absolutely.
92:30
appreciate your your
92:32
contributions and everything,
92:33
David. Um if there’ll be
92:36
nothing else uh uh just just
92:41
You cannot go wrong with the
92:45
truth. That’s where it all
92:47
starts with and you can never
92:49
go wrong if you keep your
92:53
communications hot. That’s
92:55
honest, open, and transparent.
92:58
This been on the seventh of PB
93:01
Metatron. I am so glad that
93:02
everyone was here. Keep coming
93:04
back every Tuesday, Saturday,
93:05
and Thursday where we awaken
93:08
ascend, and expand. We’re going
93:09
through eighty-eight steps into
93:12
your Mastered Self and I
93:13
guarantee you along the way,
93:16
your Mastered Self is awaiting
93:18
you. Goodbye for now and I’ll
93:20
talk to you guys. Uh I will be
93:22
back uh online tomorrow because
93:25
we have a full moon and we have
93:26
to do uh release rituals. So, I
93:29
will be online. I’m going to
93:31
send out the invitation of
93:34
probably tonight in the full
93:37
moon is at 10:37 AM daylight
93:40
time. So, I probably will be on
93:43
the call at probably like 1020
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tomorrow morning. uh just to uh
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uh do some uh meditation before
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the exact station event once
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the exact station event comes,
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we will go through the ritual
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and then we’ll go to the uh
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release affirmations and we’ll
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be good to go. So, uh I’m
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thankful and grateful. It’s
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good to see everybody. Check
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your Emails. Oh and and and
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when I send out link for
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Saturday’s meeting. I will have
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the um link to the radio
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station so that everyone if you
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if you can’t get on Zoom or you
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can’t get on Facebook, you’ll
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be able to just click right on
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to the radio station and be
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able to hear me live there as
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well. I appreciate everybody.
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Love you all. I thank you. I
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can’t wait to see you guys
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there. Thank you And Saturday,
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be good to yourself. Thank you.
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Alright. bye now. Bye for now.
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Mark Edward Pyle
Mark Edward Pyle is a Mastered Self Initiate and Soul (Karma) Reader, with 40 years of study and Master Level experience with Numerology, Astrology, Card Sciences (Standard & Tarot). Mark has perfected his craft by reading, compiling and analyzing 1,000’s of people and business/civic/governmental entities. Mark believes we are more than our Western Astrology Sun Sign and created and developed new ways in how you look at your daily/weekly/monthly & yearly horoscope.
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