On the 7s: Episode 12
Awakenings Of The Seven (7)
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Okay. So, depending upon what
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this test does. Yeah, we might
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be telling a whole bunch of
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platforms to go eat a bag.
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Don’t eat a fresh a fresh bag
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and you know I don’t know
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nothing. huh? So, let me let me
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do this. Okay? thankful and
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grateful for everyone to be
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here. Thankful for all of those
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that are watching this live on
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the Zoom call and live on
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Facebook and anyone that is
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watching the replay. This is on
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the
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sevens with PB Metatron. I am
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Piper SB Metatron, your host.
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I’m the hostess with the
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mostess. I stole that a little
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bit of that from Beetlejuice
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and made up the rest right now.
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We want to stretch it out. Just
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stretched it out. Where you at?
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In the in the midst of where
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you’re at unless you are
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driving. If you are driving,
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please, please stay focused on
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the road but if you’re sitting
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in your space, just stretch it
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out. Whatever it is that
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bothered you, Courtney. Honey
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Bee. all the deliveries. Just
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stretch those out. Let them
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fall off of your fingertips.
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fall off your toes, and just
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Yeah. just become aware of your
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surroundings and stretch your
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shoulders. Stretch your neck.
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If you’re sitting down, wiggle
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your hips. If you’re in a chair
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like me, twist the chair. Just
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relax. Just relax. and we’re
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going to keep stretching it out
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but we’re going to take five
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deep breaths. These deep
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breaths will be in through the
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nose as much as you can Hold it
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for a brief count of your
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choosing and then release and
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push everything out and do not
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take your next breath until you
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have pushed everything out and
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and have calmed a little bit.
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We’re going to do five of
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those. I’m going to do my five
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and this is on your own. Do
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your five on your own and once
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we get done, once I get done
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with the five, then I’ll come
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back and we will begin our
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energy work
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Bring your energy and attention
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and focus. to your crown
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chakra. Bring your energy and
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attention and focus to your
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crown chakra. Now, push that
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energy and attention and focus.
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down to your third eye chakra
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus. down over your
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eyebrows, over your eyes, and
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nose and ear and teeth and chin
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and into your throat chakra and
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leave some there
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push that energy and attention
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and focus. down into your
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shoulders. Let it go all the
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way down into each arm. The
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biceps, the hands, the fingers,
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all the way. Push it back up
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and then down into your heart
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chakra and leave some there
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your thighs
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and leave some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your knees
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your calves
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your ankles
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your heels
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your arches
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and leave some there. and push
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that energy and attention and
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focus. into your toes. and
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leave some there.
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Now, we will move on to our
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five five and release
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breathing. This is our
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grounding and centering
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breathing where we’ll breathe
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in on a five count. We will
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hold it for a five count and
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then we will release a full
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release at least on a five
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count and it’s important to
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push all of the air out of your
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lungs energy and attention and
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focus is at the toes hearts,
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and minds clear. breathe in
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inspiration.
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Hold that inspiration.
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and release procrastination.
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Just push it all the way out.
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Push out all the
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procrastination out. breathe in
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courage.
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Hold that courage.
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and release fear.
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Don’t be afraid. Just release
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it all.
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breathe in motivation.
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Hold that motivation.
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and release. Perfect
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imperfection.
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breathe in. positive energy.
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that positive energy.
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and release positive action and
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effort.
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Energize yourself with that
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breath.
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energy and attention and focus
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still at the toes. Push that
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energy and attention and focus
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into your arches and leave some
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there
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your heels and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your ankles and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your calves and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your knees and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your thighs and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your hips. and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus. into your root
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chakra and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your sacral
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chakra and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your solar
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plexus chakra and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your heart
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chakra and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your throat
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chakra and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your third eye.
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chakra and leave some there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus into your
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crown chakra and leave some
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there.
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Now, we will move to our 7777
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chakra energizing, breathing
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but we’ll breathe in on the
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seventh count. We will hope for
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a seven count. We’ll breathe
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out on the seven count and we
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will hold again on the seven
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count and we will have three
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repetitions of this one. There
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will be no break at the end.
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So, we will go right into the
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next breath energy and
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attention and focus at the
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crown chakra. hearts and minds
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clear Breathe in your
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creativity.
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Hold your consciousness.
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breathe out your confidence.
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and hold your commerce.
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breathe in your prosperity.
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Hold your purpose.
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breathe out your positivity.
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and hold your positive
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production.
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breathe in your commitment.
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your consistency.
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breathe out your compassion.
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and hold your curiosity.
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energy and attention and focus
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is that the crown chakra
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and above that crown chakra.
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You should see a light.
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in your mind’s eye view. See
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your body.
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and right above that crown
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chakra should be a light If you
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don’t see a light, imagine a
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light
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Reach up. and connect. with
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that light.
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feel the frequency and
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vibration of the light.
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become one with the frequency
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and vibration of the light.
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Hold it there. Breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, pull that light down to
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where it meets your crown
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chakra where your energy and
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attention and focus is pull
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that light all the way down to
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where it’s covering the top
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portion of your forehead Hold
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it there breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, pull that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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down to where it is covering
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your third eye chakra. Pull
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that energy and attention and
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focus and light down to where
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it’s covering up the top
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portion of your forehead and
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hold it there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light. Push that
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energy. Push that focus. Push
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your attention down over your
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eyes, over your nose and ears
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and teeth and chin and down
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into your throat chakra. Push
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that light and energy and
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attention to focus all the way
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down to where it is covering
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the top portion of your
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shoulders. Hold it there.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light down
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into your shoulders. down into
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both arms and hands and back up
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and down into your heart
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chakra. Open up your heart
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chakra. See your heart chakra
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open like the petals of a
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flower. That’s right. Hold it
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there. Breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light down
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to where it is covering your
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solar plexus chakra. Push that
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light down to where it is in
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the middle portion of your
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stomach region and hold it
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there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light down
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to where it is covering up your
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sacral chakra. Push that light
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all the way down to where it is
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covering the entirety of your
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stomach region. Hold it there.
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Breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light down
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to where it is covering up your
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root chakra. Push that light
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all the way down to where it is
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in the middle portion of your
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thighs. and hold it there.
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Breath in
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light down even
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further. Push that light down
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into your knees. Push the light
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down into your calves. Push
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that light down into your
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ankles. Push it down into your
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heels and around and into your
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arches and push that light and
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energy and attention and focus
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all the way to the tips of your
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toes. Illuminating your full
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mind’s eye view body Hold it
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there. breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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now. as you see yourself fully
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illuminated. take the light. is
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illuminating your body and
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expand it out to cover your
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mind’s eye view. expand that
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light out to where it is
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becoming one with your mind’s
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eye view and then one with the
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universe
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Now, as we did with the light.
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Do that with your body. Expand
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your body outward until it
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becomes one with your mind’s
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eye view. one with the light
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and then one with the universe.
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Hold it there. Breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Welcome to your very own
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manifestation chamber. in the
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cosmos. where you are floating
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around. every manifesting
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thing. every goal, desire, and
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to pursued that you’re Mastered
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Self has for you. whatever
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comes in your purview, whatever
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comes up to you, whatever you
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see, grab it and put it into
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that open heart chakra. Grab
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your goals, grab your desire,
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Grab your active pursuits and
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put them one by one. in your
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heart chakra. Also, grab your
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healing opportunities. Whatever
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it is that you need to heal
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from, grab that as well and put
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them one by one in that heart,
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Open heart chakra
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That’s right. Grab ’em all. now
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with your left hand. Put it on
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your heart chakra. and with
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your right hand, put it on your
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left shoulder. as we empower
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and equip and energize all of
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your manifestations. and all of
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your healing in that open heart
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chakra.
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Enjoy this.
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now with your energy and
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attention and focus, and light,
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at the tip of your toes. Push
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that energy and attention and
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focus and light into your
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arches. push that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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into your heels.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light into your
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ankles. push that energy and
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attention and light and focus
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into your calves. push that
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energy and attention and focus
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and light into your needs. Push
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that energy. Attention, focus
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in life, into your thighs. Push
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that energy and focus and light
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into your hips. Push that
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energy and intention and focus
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in life into your root chakra
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and hold it there. Breath in
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out.
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and hold
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push that energy and attention.
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Focus and light into your
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sacral chakra and hold it
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there. Breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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Attention, focus, and light.
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into your plexus chakra and
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hold it there. Breathe in.
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Hold
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out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy and
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intention, focus and light into
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that heart chakra with your
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energized, equipped, and
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empowered manifestations and
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healings and hold it there
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breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy.
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Attention, focus, and light and
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energize and equipped and
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empowered manifestations and
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healings up into your throat
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chakra and hold them there
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Breathe in
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home.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy.
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Attention. focus, like and
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energized, equipped, and
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empowered manifestations and
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healings up around your chin,
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around your teeth, ears, nose,
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eyes, and into the third eye
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chakra and hold it there.
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breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy. Push
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that attention. Push that. Push
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that light and those energized
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equipped, and empowered
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manifestations and healings up
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into your crown chakra and out
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of your crown chakra. and allow
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it to rain on your mind’s eye
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view.
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Hold
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it there. breathe in.
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home.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Take a moment to enjoy. your
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abundance. rain.
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now. As we come back to the now
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contract your body back to its
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original mind’s eye view
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contract. That light back to
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its original minds. I’ve you
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still allowing the reign of
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your abundant manifestations to
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reign on you as we start to rub
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our hands together, we’re going
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to take three deep breaths
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Breath in,
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Hold and release.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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and release.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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and release.
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Welcome back to the now.
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Welcome back to under the
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sevens with Piper’s Be
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Metatron. I’m going to open up
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the phone lines. I’ve been
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wanting to say that so long.
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I’m going to open up the phone
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lines. now, I’m opening up the
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lines that I have to do a
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little minor technical thing.
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If you want a greet each other,
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you want to share something or
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just tell us anything that may
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have came to you during the
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meditation, that’ll be fine.
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We’re appreciative but the
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floor is open
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Actually, I did Wanted to say
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something to Tamika. She
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actually shared something last
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week that was
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very
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profound to me personally,
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I had just shared something
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with Mark prior to last week’s
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call about the fact that you
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mentioned something about being
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an oldest child and like at a
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very early age having to be
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responsible for your siblings
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before you’re even capable of
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being responsible for yourself
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and it’s interesting because I
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had never really thought about
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it until I’ve been doing a lot
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of like my own work lately but
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the fact that that came to my
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attention after so many years
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and then I brought it to his
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attention and then you brought
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it up in the last meeting. I
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was just like, wow, it’s just
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amazing how things are coming
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to me but it’s amazing to see
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that a lot of people that are
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have gone through similar
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things that a lot of people are
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coming coming to the same
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awakening like almost at the
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same time. So anyway, when you
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share that, I just I just want
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Say thank you for sharing that
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because it it was just
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something I needed to be aware
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of. So, I just wanted to say
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thank you
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Absolutely. Absolutely. Anybody
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else? Anyone else? I just
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wanted to say you’re welcome
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II. Know that this is something
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that we’re all processing This
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is a beautiful time for healing
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right now for all of us. Yeah.
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Yeah. and it’s just amazing
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because I see a lot of people
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like are going through like the
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same thing like I had another
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conversation with another lady
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and she was talking about this
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whole journey of self love and
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self worth and I was just like,
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how come we weren’t talking
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about this stuff like 10 years
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ago? You know, so it’s just
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amazing that a lot of people
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are just, you know, seem to be
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in the same boat. So, I’m I’m
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just appreciative that that I’m
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here and I get to share this
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with other people that’s in the
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same situation. Absolutely.
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We’re glad that we’re all
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sharing this and we’re all here
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together and one way, shape or
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form. each of us are dealing
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with our own healing issues.
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rather willingly or unwillingly
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but we’re all being pushed and
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forced and and and and and
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being deal with those things
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that some of us thought that we
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might even have already
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processed through and and got
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over with and we’re finding out
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right now during this time that
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we’re not and we hadn’t and
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it’s shocking. It it can be
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shocking especially, you know,
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for those of us who think that
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we have already passed that
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thing we’ve already processed
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that thing. I’ve already done
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that thing. I’m good. I’m good.
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I’m good. That’s that’s a
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reoccurring thing. I have I’ve
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I’ve I’ve had four or five in
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the past 2 days with different
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people and it’s a reoccurring
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theme is I thought I dealt with
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that. I already dealt with
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that. Why is it coming back?
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Why? Why? Why? Because we
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hadn’t dealt with it. That’s
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why you know, sometimes in our
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powering through and we think
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we’re processing and dealt with
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it. We just pushed it down
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further. That’s all and it’s
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just take a little longer for
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that stuff and **** that we
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have pushed way down in the
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stank part of the soul. Yeah.
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yeah. That stuff take a to come
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up. It takes a while to come
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up. So, you know, and you’re
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right, Tamika. Most things are
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multi-layered, not just some
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most of them are multi layered.
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So, this is a beneficial
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healing time for us. We are
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pushing our way towards a new
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moon and a eclipse here in less
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than 48 hours. So, this healing
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and and the changes the
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transformation and the
38:50
uncomfortableness that’s been
38:51
going on for this past week is
38:54
necessary for us to get clear
38:55
and get free. of all of the
38:59
limitations, all of the all of
39:01
the old paradigm burdens, old
39:04
limitations, that old story we
39:05
used to tell ourselves anything
39:07
that held us back where you’re
39:10
going, that stuff is not
39:12
acceptable. So I can I share
39:14
something with the that
39:16
absolutely. on exactly what you
39:19
just said. Like right now, I am
39:22
finding it almost impossible.
39:24
to overlook things. sweet stuff
39:27
under the rug, ignore stuff.
39:31
was so easy at one point to do.
39:35
Now, I just, I can’t do it.
39:36
It’s like I just, I can’t bite
39:39
my tongue anymore. Absolutely.
39:42
absolutely. What used to be
39:44
able to. Yeah. What used to be.
39:47
okay And cute and that’s just
39:51
them. Yeah. that **** ain’t
39:53
going no more. Yeah. huh?
39:55
Tolerance level is up to here.
39:56
It’s like oh, no, no, no. If I
39:59
hear this, if I see this one
40:01
more time, yeah, that’s where
40:03
all of us are out there. You
40:04
got one more time. time. One
40:07
more time. One more time. You
40:09
know, y’all know what I’m
40:11
talking about. You got one more
40:13
time. One more time. That and
40:16
and and you know, a lot of us
40:19
what we what we don’t really
40:20
want to admit that our soul is
40:23
telling our **** You got one
40:26
more time to doubt yourself.
40:28
You got one more time to
40:31
procrastinate. You got one more
40:32
time to turn away from an
40:35
opportunity that I present to
40:36
you. You got one more time. One
40:39
more time. This is this is the
40:41
time for all of us to jump
40:43
forward. No falling back. No
40:46
falling back. This is jump
40:48
forward time. This is this is
40:50
manifest with momentum time.
40:52
This is this is reach up and
40:54
grab a hold of your goals,
40:57
desires, and active pursuits
40:58
and put them into motion time.
41:00
This is no time to be. Oh my
41:02
gosh and to be lamenting and to
41:06
be worried or anything like
41:07
that. This is the time for
41:09
action. This is the time for
41:12
healing, releasing, and then
41:14
forward progress forward
41:16
movement upward onward, with
41:19
that. I’m I’m thankful and
41:20
grateful for all that has been
41:22
shared. I’m thankful and
41:23
grateful for everybody that’s
41:24
here. We want to get into some
41:28
more of the emotional self. I
41:31
knew when I opened up this can
41:33
of whoop **** that it was going
41:35
to do this just that it was
41:36
going to whoop **** The
41:39
emotional self is aligned with
41:41
that heart chakra the the
41:44
intent, the the theme, the
41:46
title, surrounding the emotion
41:50
of self is emotional self
41:52
healing. forgiveness, and
41:56
reactive response control We we
42:00
have already covered that
42:03
Emotional Self is home to our
42:04
ego, our anger, our self worth,
42:08
and attachments. and I have
42:12
titled the emotional Self, the
42:14
Trauma Center of the Soul So,
42:19
with that, we want to continue
42:20
on down the road. of the
42:24
emotional self and the art of
42:26
becoming less ego Emotional.
42:28
There’s another one of those
42:29
words I made up ego and and
42:32
emotion. I just took em out and
42:34
put ego ego Emotional and
42:40
today’s keyword. Today’s the
42:42
topic of today, the keyword for
42:43
the day is reshape. reshaping
42:49
it any way you want to say it.
42:53
Reshape or reshaping your
42:56
emotional slash ego.
43:02
foundations. So, today, we’re
43:04
going to talk about the
43:05
reshaping of our Emotional
43:08
slash ego foundations. Number
43:11
one, we we went over it briefly
43:15
Last week. We went over the
43:17
topic of recognizing are some
43:22
of our emotional triggers and
43:24
and that was a very, very, very
43:26
good conversation but we want
43:28
to get a we want to drill down
43:31
a little bit deeper today in
43:34
reference to the emotional
43:36
triggers and today, we want to
43:38
start with identifying and
43:42
removing our emotional triggers
43:46
baggage, and life drama
43:49
parenthesis, acknowledgement,
43:52
and detachment. So, we’re going
43:54
to acknowledge we have to
43:57
acknowledge these triggers and
44:01
then we have to do the the the
44:04
both both the acknowledgement
44:06
of the triggers and then
44:07
detaching from them. Both of
44:08
these are are very very hard.
44:11
This is not easy. It not easy
44:14
to acknowledge. an emotional
44:19
trigger. Most of us don’t don’t
44:22
even want to believe that we
44:24
have any of them triggers on
44:26
us. We, you know, you start
44:27
telling people about triggers
44:29
and they get all bent out of
44:31
shape.
44:35
Emotional triggers are alive
44:37
and well in each and every one
44:39
of us. All of us have to have
44:40
them no matter how high up the
44:43
Ascension ladder, you get, you
44:44
still have them, huh? You still
44:46
have them. Now, the the the the
44:50
more spiritual and the higher
44:51
up the ladder you get that may
44:52
be covered. They may be deeply
44:55
embedded in your soul. It may
44:56
take a lot more to get to them
44:58
but trust me when I tell you
45:00
that they’re there, they’re
45:02
always they will always be
45:03
there. The triggers that I had
45:07
As a little boy. I still have
45:10
them today. Some of them are so
45:14
far buried in the depths of my
45:17
soul that can’t be touched
45:19
anymore. doesn’t mean that
45:21
they’re not there. It just
45:23
means that they are. So, I have
45:26
so so I’ve evolved so far from
45:30
them from some of them that
45:33
they are just embedded deeply
45:34
in the soul and they are
45:35
protected from ever being
45:36
touched again. Some are people
45:39
specific and that’s what I want
45:41
to get into. external.
45:46
influences, people and events
45:47
that are our emotional
45:48
triggers. Can anybody give me
45:52
some external influences?
45:55
people or events?
46:00
that are a trigger for you.
46:07
I used to be
46:11
triggered. Bye.
46:17
my
46:18
political my former
46:21
political affiliation, and the
46:24
trigger. came a long time ago.
46:30
because my former political
46:33
affiliation was not the normal
46:37
political affiliation for a lot
46:38
of folks like me. I’m just
46:41
going to say it like that. I’m
46:42
not going to get real. Y’all
46:44
know what I’m talking about.
46:45
You know what I’m talking
46:46
about? So,
46:49
My
46:50
former political affiliation
46:52
was different than the rest. of
46:57
folks like me. I would get
47:00
attacked. and before I even
47:04
before the attack even came to
47:06
trigger was activated. whenever
47:08
that situation, whenever
47:10
politics were discussed and I
47:11
was in a group when when I
47:13
heard the the conversation even
47:16
head that way, the trigger was
47:17
it was it was bam and I was
47:20
already on the defense That’s a
47:23
specific external. outside.
47:26
That’s a specific external
47:27
influence. politics and my
47:31
beliefs versus someone else’s
47:34
beliefs used to be a trigger
47:36
for me. I used to get just dig
47:38
in and you know, and go back
47:42
and forth and about politics
47:46
about some **** that I can’t
47:47
even control. I can’t control
47:50
politics. I don’t control. I
47:51
don’t have any control over
47:54
hell. Who the who they elect is
47:56
dog catcher in Las Vegas. I
47:57
don’t have no control over
47:58
that. I don’t have any control
48:01
over any policies that any
48:04
politician does from from the
48:06
school crossing guard all the
48:08
way up to the White House. I
48:10
don’t have any control. over
48:12
that.
48:15
some
48:15
of the issues that that
48:18
are hot bed issues, the
48:20
triggers for us some of the
48:25
some of the external.
48:29
influences, some of the
48:30
external events. They’re a
48:34
trigger for us. This is just my
48:37
own belief. What I’m what I’m
48:39
getting ready to tell you guys,
48:41
this is just about me. It don’t
48:43
have to do with nobody else. I
48:45
don’t want to see no more
48:47
videos of unarmed civilians
48:52
being killed or murdered by the
48:54
cops. I don’t need to see
48:58
another one. I know the story
49:01
already. I’m not going to allow
49:05
myself to get emotionally
49:08
triggered. by something that I
49:11
can’t control. I can’t control
49:14
police not murdering unarmed
49:18
civilians. I can’t control it
49:19
no matter what I do. Piper’s be
49:24
cannot control that. So, I’m
49:28
not going to watch him no more.
49:28
I’m not going to. I’m not going
49:30
to get in. get on the the
49:32
threads about them. If I see
49:36
one of the stories on the
49:38
timeline, I’m going to scroll
49:40
past it. Not that I don’t care
49:44
about that issue. That issue is
49:46
a troubling issue. Anytime
49:48
anyone is unarmed and fleeing
49:51
from police and they get
49:52
killed, that’s troubling. I
49:53
don’t care what color they It’s
49:56
troubling. I can’t do anything
49:59
about it. That’s me, myself.
50:02
personally, nothing I can do.
50:04
I’m going to stop II have taken
50:07
that trigger away by not even
50:10
exposing myself to that I don’t
50:13
expose myself to the media.
50:17
None of the media. I don’t If
50:19
if if if it comes on, I’ll I’ll
50:22
I’ll switch because I can’t
50:25
control the news that they
50:28
produce. I can’t control the
50:32
narrative that they purported
50:36
and support. So, for me, these
50:41
are specific external
50:43
influences, people and events I
50:46
used to get. so bent out of
50:48
shape. I told you guys about
50:51
the teams I used to like in the
50:52
professional teams and I was
50:54
the fan and you know, I if they
50:56
won, I’m I’m celebrating like
50:59
I’m on the team and if they
50:59
lost, I’m down in the dumps and
51:02
for what? For what?
51:11
specific external influences
51:14
are the reason why we have some
51:16
of the emotional triggers we
51:17
have and and you know, I
51:18
haven’t even gotten to where
51:21
where a lot of our troops come
51:22
from that’s coming next Anybody
51:26
else got some examples of some
51:29
external influences or or
51:31
external events that you get
51:34
emotional about What about
51:36
family? We’re they’re they’re
51:39
next. They’re next. They’re
51:43
next. because they are
51:49
family is what I call specific
51:50
internal influences. Inner
51:54
circle.
51:58
immediate family like the
51:59
family you came from. then, the
52:03
I mean, secondary family, like
52:05
the family you came from
52:06
immediate family, spouse, kids,
52:09
you know, in laws, all of that.
52:13
Some of your neighbors are are
52:15
in that, you know, inner
52:17
circle, the people in your
52:18
inner circle
52:22
There’s a lot of a lot of
52:25
mothers on this call. Your kids
52:30
put some triggers, emotional
52:32
triggers on you. They’re the
52:35
emotional triggers between you
52:36
and your children. You and the
52:39
spouse.
52:43
We don’t like that part. We we
52:45
don’t like the part. We don’t
52:47
like admitting that. Yeah, I
52:49
love my kids but they pissed me
52:51
off. My I’m sick of them and I
52:56
love you but I’m sick of you.
53:00
My knew you know and and
53:04
sometimes it seems that the
53:09
specific internal influences
53:11
that inner circle, the family,
53:12
the spouse, the kids, we can
53:16
even put coworkers in there
53:18
because coworkers are kind of
53:19
like your inner circle because
53:20
you spend more time with your
53:22
coworkers than you do with your
53:23
family. Really. You do.
53:29
Why is it that? Why? Why is it
53:31
that we
53:35
allow those
53:36
triggers with the
53:38
internal circle people. Hi,
53:43
Joanne. Hey, how are you? Very
53:46
well today. How are you? I’m
53:48
I’m going to see my house where
53:50
it’s going to be built. So, I’m
53:51
going to sit there. again. It’s
53:53
just an exit away from my job.
53:55
So, I usually just go and be
53:56
nosy and see what’s up. What’s
53:58
up? But you’re not being nosy.
54:00
That’s your **** You ain’t
54:01
being nosy. You’re going to
54:02
look at your stuff. Yeah, I’m
54:05
going, I’m going to see what’s
54:07
up but II was you’re talking
54:10
about external triggers and
54:13
learned that when. Okay. So,
54:15
this is this is a good story
54:17
but it’s a sad story. I was
54:18
like, 29 years old years ago.
54:23
and I was pregnant and I had
54:25
this **** of a supervisor. She
54:27
knew I was having problems in
54:29
my pregnancy and I was young
54:31
and I didn’t have my voice like
54:33
I have now and she tormented
54:35
me. She that **** tormented me
54:38
and that was my job and I and I
54:39
never had a problem with her
54:41
fire but I don’t know My
54:43
pregnancy made her worse. and
54:47
you know, I love, you know,
54:49
later on, I lost my son. He was
54:50
4 months old and to this day, I
54:53
said, I will never allow
54:54
someone to take my voice and
54:57
you know, by the time I did,
54:59
you know, I lost my son and I
55:01
went back to I went back to
55:02
work and I was done with her. I
55:05
even I actually hanged up on
55:07
her because I was done with her
55:08
and so, you know, it just
55:10
teaches you that the body, you
55:11
know, the tolerance of the You
55:14
said you said something. One
55:17
word but if you call the ego
55:18
but if you know your ego, you
55:20
know your tolerance and the
55:22
tolerance is done, nothing to
55:23
be played with because I know
55:25
my tolerance as well and so,
55:26
you know, I had to learn the
55:28
hard way to not lose my voice,
55:31
you know, and that’s I learned
55:33
that when I was thirty and II,
55:35
you know, I never want to lose
55:37
my voice or having the stamina
55:39
to express myself, you know,
55:41
and so it’s important you know,
55:43
I hope everybody believes in
55:46
voice, you know, because that’s
55:47
their body talking. So, leave
55:50
your voice and you and
55:51
everything will become a little
55:52
easier for you. Absolutely.
55:55
Absolutely. You know, it is
55:57
important. You know, I’ve had
55:59
I’ve had some some some very
56:02
cool bosses in corporate
56:06
America and I’ve had some
56:07
idiots that I’ve worked for in
56:10
corporate America and you know,
56:13
when I
56:18
the company, man. My mindset. I
56:23
stopped giving a **** and stop
56:26
taking the personal acting
56:27
jobs. You know I never ever
56:32
thought I would ever be the guy
56:33
that show up, do your job, go
56:35
home, and get the paycheck That
56:37
that never was me. I got to a
56:40
point to where I figured out
56:42
that corporate America don’t
56:43
give a **** about you. You just
56:46
put Billy. you’re just a Billy
56:48
in the chair and you you think
56:51
we we be in those jobs and we
56:53
believe that we are so
56:55
important to the government and
56:57
the company can’t make it
56:59
without us and yada yada yada
57:00
and the day after your funeral
57:02
I have a new person in your
57:03
desk.
57:07
day after you leave and you
57:08
don’t even wait till you’re
57:10
cold and and gone.
57:14
I’ve seen it happen to a guy I
57:17
worked at Motor finance Company
57:19
and the in the middle 90s in
57:23
Fountain Valley, California and
57:25
and a guy had a heart attack at
57:27
his desk on a Thursday in his
57:30
office and Monday morning,
57:31
there was somebody else in that
57:32
office Oh my god.
57:43
specific internal influences do
57:45
we do we have and and I’m going
57:49
to get into this further in the
57:51
next section but do we have
57:56
expectations? Do we have
57:59
expectations for the kids? Do
58:00
we have expectations for the
58:03
media and the secondary family
58:04
and the folks in the inner
58:05
circle that when they don’t
58:07
live up to that expectation,
58:09
that’s when that emotional
58:10
trigger gets flicked of course,
58:20
So, and we’re going to get to
58:23
to that expectation stuff in a
58:26
minute. So, you see how some of
58:31
our emotional triggers are self
58:33
inflicted Yes. we put them in.
58:38
We and we give him a name. We
58:39
give them that name, That
58:40
child’s name, That job. Name
58:42
that supervisor’s name. I had
58:43
AI had a supervisor that I
58:45
couldn’t stand. I gave her
58:48
power because my energy was I
58:51
can’t stand this heifer. I wish
58:52
he would just get hit by a bus.
58:58
I’m serious. I believe it. I’m
59:01
telling you. I believe it. I
59:02
believe it. I believe it but it
59:05
was it was and every time I
59:06
seen her, I would just be like,
59:08
if she call me in the office
59:09
and I’ll be like, oh my god,
59:13
But what about an emotional
59:15
trigger? This is. excuse me.
59:17
Hi, Wanda. Hi. You know, I
59:20
don’t know if there’s an
59:21
emotional trigger or it’s just
59:22
that like I said, I’ve lived in
59:24
Germany 25 years where people
59:27
I’m not going to say it better
59:29
than anybody. I just said they
59:30
have a different consciousness.
59:32
I think they just live by the
59:33
code or something. I don’t
59:35
know. I got that right here and
59:37
I’ve had some of your
59:39
situations now but just
59:41
thinking last night, I got a
59:42
text from my god. Are you still
59:44
awake? I just went to the
59:46
casino and I won so and so and
59:48
you know, it’s about twenty
59:51
after ten now. have known each
59:54
other for about four or 5
59:55
months and I have said to him
59:57
because he’s always calling
59:59
like I’ll be somewhere and
60:00
he’ll say, well, what you
60:01
doing? Because I’m going to go
60:03
to the casino. Come on.
60:06
That’s that’s that’s cool. I
60:09
can go with you. I’m not a
60:11
gambler but I don’t mind
60:12
hanging out in my room with him
60:13
but he goes about six 7 days a
60:15
week. So, to me, he really
60:17
likes it. So, last night when
60:20
he did that, I just said, you
60:22
know, I’m not even going to
60:25
answer him because then I’ll
60:26
get into that with him and then
60:29
next thing you know, I’m
60:30
getting in the bed much later
60:31
than I had planned to get in
60:33
and I decided I’m not going to
60:35
be distracted by that. Good
60:39
It’s for me. like you said this
60:41
time it’s the time that with
60:42
this new moon coming in and the
60:44
eclipse and all in Gemini. it’s
60:47
the time to really choose what
60:49
we need, what works, and what
60:52
keeps us in a place of you
60:55
know, our peace and harmony and
60:57
not that everybody’s perfect.
60:58
We are working it out. Yeah.
60:59
But if it’s a constant thing, I
61:03
just feel like you’ve been back
61:04
4 years and you’ve been
61:05
allowing a whole lot of stuff
61:06
from people because you’ve been
61:08
trying to get along but now I’m
61:09
just I’m willing to do it. I
61:10
think it’s the eclipses and you
61:12
know, me just saying, you know,
61:14
I just rather not do this
61:15
anymore because I don’t, I’m
61:17
not used to it. So, why should
61:18
I continue to accept or not
61:20
that I’m going to find people
61:21
like the Germans but
61:23
eventually, I will find people
61:24
who will keep their word or if
61:26
you call them and ask them,
61:27
will they do something and they
61:27
will say, I can’t. Oh, I can’t.
61:30
They won’t just leave you
61:31
hanging. Don’t get to. you
61:33
Don’t write your back. Don’t
61:35
call you back but when they
61:36
need you, you already jumping.
61:39
So, these are the things that
61:41
I’m looking at about myself
61:44
because I feel like, well,
61:45
that’s love going well. Yeah,
61:47
That’s love but still there has
61:48
to be some type of boundaries.
61:50
I have to look at in order to
61:52
get a change that I feel that I
61:55
need for my own peace and my
61:56
own my own journey now.
61:59
Absolutely. Absolutely.
62:02
Absolutely and and it will you
62:03
will see Vander that things
62:07
will begin to level out and and
62:10
Just stay focused and and
62:14
deliberate about only
62:16
attracting those with equal
62:18
energy as yours and equal
62:19
vibration is yours and with
62:22
with with pure intent and
62:24
everything else will will
62:26
organically just start to
62:26
manifest for you. Perfect and
62:30
yeah, you know, you like you
62:32
say you’ve been in, you’ve been
62:34
in another country for 25 years
62:37
and I love it and and Pick a
62:40
hell of a time to come back to
62:42
America. I’m just going to tell
62:43
you that the America’s is in
62:47
the midst of a transition and a
62:50
transformation and it’s going
62:52
to, it’s going to get a whole
62:53
lot worse before it gets any
62:55
better and that’s why I’m
62:57
making the changes. That’s why
62:58
I said you just make the
63:00
changes so that you can stay in
63:01
peace. You’re so right. You
63:03
make the changes in you and and
63:05
and hold on and and and and the
63:10
the organic manifestation of
63:13
what America is going to
63:15
transform into allow it to take
63:16
place and find your spot in
63:18
that. That’s right. We’re going
63:19
to be okay with that. Thank
63:21
you. Alright. Alright. quickly.
63:23
I also want to cover, you know,
63:25
there are other contributing
63:27
factors to our, you triggers
63:30
and they’re all centered around
63:31
our self esteem and self worth.
63:34
You know, some of us got
63:36
triggers in reference to our
63:37
parents and
63:42
Yes. Hello. Yeah, our pianist
63:47
and our looks and you know how
63:50
it all, how the whole package
63:53
is presented and and all of
63:55
that and and and you know, most
63:57
of us have when we go out, we
63:59
see folks that that we know
64:01
give zero **** about their
64:03
appearance that looks by the
64:04
way that they go out right now.
64:08
You know. also another
64:12
contributing factor to our
64:13
emotional triggers are is our
64:15
status or lack thereof, our
64:17
worldly, our life status or
64:20
lack thereof. Yes. And then
64:23
finally, you know, the
64:24
lifestyle choices, I like to
64:26
call these our habits, hobbies,
64:28
and hangups, You know, all of
64:30
these go into the makings and
64:34
the positioning and and the of
64:38
the emotional triggers.
64:41
baggage, and life drama that we
64:43
all have in and through our
64:45
lives. Now, let’s move on to
64:49
quickly because I didn’t talk
64:51
too much already. Let’s move on
64:53
to the art of emotional
64:55
detachment. I know that is that
64:58
sounds frightening to some
64:59
folks I talk about detachment
65:02
with some people and it’s it’s
65:04
either frightening or or or
65:07
they automatically come back
65:10
with some sort of retort that
65:11
that that is saying well you
65:14
you want me to be cold blooded,
65:15
no cold hearted, no Do you want
65:19
me not to care? No. No. That’s
65:22
not it. That’s not it. At all.
65:24
The the the art of emotional
65:26
detachment deals with this
65:31
voice. your expectations. See
65:36
the problem that a lot of our
65:38
emotional triggers and and a
65:40
lot of the are reactive
65:43
responses is due to our
65:44
disappointments. ninety-eight
65:46
98% of our disappointments come
65:47
from expectations that we have
65:49
for someone else. and they
65:52
don’t live up to him ninety.
65:56
98% of those expectations we
65:58
never tell the other person
66:04
How the hell are they supposed
66:05
to live up to something they
66:06
don’t know. You see how we set
66:09
ourselves up for emotional
66:11
triggers. See how we set
66:11
ourselves up for our own
66:15
disappointments. We we are we
66:17
set ourselves up for the
66:18
majority of the disappointments
66:19
happening in our own lives. by
66:22
having expectation, having a
66:24
silent expectations of someone
66:27
else or something else. and
66:30
never voicing it.
66:35
void. So, the art of emotional
66:37
attachment, number one, voice
66:40
your expectations give truth to
66:44
give a word. Give volume to
66:48
your expectations. no matter
66:51
who it is, spouse kids, boss,
66:54
job, coworker, whatever it is,
66:59
Speak them. Don’t just have
67:02
them secretly in your mind or
67:05
secretly in your heart. voice a
67:09
voice to your expectations. And
67:15
there’s a and it takes a little
67:16
bit more. This is a two-part
67:18
step. Put voice to your
67:20
expectations and detach from
67:23
the expected outcome
67:29
So, what I’m saying is speak
67:34
your truth. Tell the other
67:36
person your expectations. and
67:40
then stop expecting anything
67:43
after that.
67:48
Take your hands off of the
67:50
outcome. just because we expect
67:55
something. from someone else
68:00
doesn’t necessarily mean we’re
68:01
going to get it. be real hard
68:05
to get something that the other
68:06
person didn’t know that you
68:07
want. So, if you’re not voicing
68:09
your expectations, you damn
68:11
sure ain’t going to get hardly
68:13
none of those I have never
68:16
gotten anything that I didn’t
68:18
voice four.
68:24
What? Go ahead. Who’s that?
68:26
Who’s that? I was laughing
68:28
because that’s what I was just
68:29
saying. I said, known this guy
68:30
about four or 5 months and I’ve
68:31
said to him so many times, you
68:34
know, that that doesn’t work
68:36
for me or last minute. Things
68:37
don’t work for me or you know,
68:40
I said it many times and he’s
68:42
totally ignored me. So, that’s
68:44
my last night when he wrote
68:45
that, I said, I’m not
68:46
answering. I’m just not. Okay.
68:49
So Vander, I got I’m glad you
68:52
you you gave me the particulars
68:53
about that. So, you have voiced
68:56
your expectations numerous
69:00
times and he either can’t
69:02
understand English. Can’t
69:04
understand how you’re talking
69:06
or refuses to correct, right?
69:09
He says, he forgets because he
69:10
had two plates put his head
69:11
from any other accident one
69:13
time. Oh well, well, and and is
69:16
this someone that you are
69:19
considering partnering with as
69:21
a mate? Not anymore. then I
69:26
want to. I want because he’s he
69:27
obviously he doesn’t care what
69:30
you say. He’s not listening to.
69:32
He won’t even honor the fact
69:34
that you don’t want to be
69:35
called after ten or after a
69:37
certain hour. He won’t even out
69:38
of that. So, this is what I
69:40
want you to do when you go out
69:42
tomorrow, stop by big five or
69:45
or Walmart or Kmart or anyone
69:47
of them little sporting goods
69:49
stores and when you when the
69:50
person when you walk in the
69:52
door and they ask you, hi, is
69:53
there anything you need help
69:54
with? Tell them you want to get
69:56
a referee’s whistle You know
70:01
what the whistle is for, right?
70:02
No, I don’t. Then, when he
70:05
calls you tonight at 10 o’clock
70:08
or after the time when you told
70:09
him you don’t want to be
70:10
called, answer the phone and
70:12
blow that whistle in that phone
70:13
for about 30 seconds.
70:19
I guarantee you, he will get
70:21
the point. If he doesn’t, if
70:25
he’s hard headed like some of
70:27
us men are hard headed, he’ll
70:30
call back again and again, I
70:33
guarantee you after the second
70:34
time, he ain’t going to have no
70:36
doubt what the real deal is,
70:39
okay? Because obviously, when
70:42
when you when you are dealing
70:43
with someone who disrespects
70:46
what you have requested,
70:47
there’s only one way to do
70:50
that. Yes. And that’s a pivot.
70:52
You don’t. You have been nice.
70:54
You’ve been nice by telling him
70:56
over and over and over that you
70:58
don’t want to go out like that
70:59
and you don’t want to be called
71:01
after a certain hour and he
71:02
has, he has honored any of So,
71:05
just blow that whistle and that
71:06
cellphone and if you don’t bust
71:07
his eardrum, it will bust that
71:09
heart
71:13
I don’t know. I’m I’m I’m the I
71:16
can do that. Okay. then just
71:20
expect to keep getting phone
71:21
calls in. Okay. I’m just I’m
71:24
just saying because he is he’s
71:26
already proven to you that it
71:27
don’t matter what you say. He
71:30
sure has shown me that Your
71:31
life III. have to be honest
71:33
with that. So, speak his
71:35
language. He I bet you he
71:37
understands whistle in the
71:38
phone.
71:43
I I’ll I’ll see if I’ve had the
71:45
nerve to do it. Okay. Alright.
71:47
thanks. Trust me. I’m giving at
71:50
least three people. The whistle
71:52
effect. and it works. Trust me,
71:54
it works. I haven’t heard from
71:55
them three people ever again.
72:00
And that’s what I wanted. Okay?
72:03
That’s exactly what I wanted.
72:06
Number two. Number two, this is
72:09
my favorite one right here, you
72:11
guys. The art of emotional
72:14
detachment number two. hold
72:18
everyone. This is my favorite
72:19
one, right? Including yourself,
72:22
first yourself but hold
72:24
everyone accountable for owning
72:29
their own ****
72:36
I can’t. I can’t fix anything.
72:40
for my daughter. Love my
72:44
daughter. Care about my
72:46
daughter. She she’s number one.
72:49
She’s the number one child of
72:51
mine Love her to the moon and
72:54
back. I can’t fix anything.
73:01
and she calls and I can give
73:03
her a reading. I can tell her
73:05
what the card say. I can tell
73:06
her where the charts says, you
73:08
know, I can give fatherly
73:11
advice But if I don’t tell her
73:15
to own her **** then I’m all
73:18
you going to do is just dump it
73:20
on to me. You guys understand
73:22
what I mean? So, I make sure
73:23
that she owns her **** before
73:25
we get into a conversation.
73:28
That mean I don’t care. That
73:29
mean I don’t love her. I love
73:31
her. I do and I care. but we
73:36
have to make you gotta you have
73:39
to own your **** right?
73:40
Everybody on this car. Do we
73:41
all own our own **** or do we
73:45
sweep it up under that rug?
73:46
That’s hot. That’s got a big
73:47
**** mountain now. the
73:51
responsibilities I do. I know
73:52
when I’ve done something I say,
73:54
just accept it. You know, so
73:57
why do we allow everybody else
73:59
in our lives not to? can I
74:02
answer that one? Absolutely. We
74:05
it because we unintentionally
74:07
do it ourselves and we don’t
74:09
pay attention to the ones we
74:10
say that we honor our self when
74:12
we’re accountable for ourself.
74:14
We’re accountable for what we
74:16
consciously catch but we are
74:17
not accountable for what we
74:20
unconsciously catch and don’t
74:21
even realize that we’re doing
74:22
something unconsciously. So,
74:25
because of our lack of self
74:26
awareness, we can’t be that
74:29
aware of everybody else and
74:30
when other people are
74:31
irritating you for something
74:32
they do, I guarantee you that’s
74:36
unconscious habit that you do
74:38
and the only reason why you’re
74:40
catching it in the other person
74:42
is because it exists in you.
74:45
So, you can’t catch something.
74:47
You’re not going to catch
74:48
something and irritate you.
74:49
It’s almost like a spiritual
74:52
warning sign like when you’re
74:53
engine light pops on your
74:55
spirit is basically kind of
74:56
nudging you, telling you, hey,
74:58
you need to pay attention to
74:59
this because if you’re
75:00
gossiping about something or
75:02
something on the outside of
75:02
you, it’s irritating you Ask
75:04
yourself, why is it irritating?
75:06
You pay more attention to
75:08
yourself but I guarantee you,
75:10
you’re going to find out you’re
75:10
going to catch yourself
75:12
actually doing it yourself
75:15
Absolutely. Can I hit one more
75:16
thing because I was actually
75:18
listening to y’all. I’m
75:18
actually kind of working at the
75:20
same time. So, I wanted to pop
75:21
in but I think it was Vonda was
75:24
talking about the guy and you
75:25
were telling her to blow the
75:27
whistle and the phone, right?
75:28
Yeah. Okay, Vonda, let me say
75:32
this like this because I’m I
75:33
heard what you were saying and
75:34
I heard how you’re saying it.
75:36
so you still have some
75:36
hesitation in there. Let me see
75:38
if this will help clear. up.
75:41
Basically, what Piper is saying
75:44
is people do things. What what
75:46
he does when he says that,
75:48
well, I have these plates in my
75:50
head. He’s created one of the
75:52
dumb **** habits that I call a
75:53
dumb **** habit. So, you give
75:56
yourself an excuse for not
75:58
doing something or falling
76:00
short of being better than who
76:01
you are and then you lean so
76:03
much on the excuses just
76:05
becomes a habit to say that and
76:07
a habit to just do it now. he
76:09
probably just forgot and did
76:10
some dumb **** Like like like
76:12
we do. At times you did some
76:14
dumb **** You forgot And then
76:15
you thought about it later and
76:17
was like, oh **** I was
76:17
supposed to call her. I was, oh
76:18
damn. I didn’t call her or he
76:20
felt some type of way and
76:21
started thinking about you at
76:22
10 o’clock at night. So, his
76:24
mind was so caught up in what
76:27
his emotion was. It was an
76:29
emotional response. He was so
76:30
caught up in the emotion of
76:31
wanting to say something to you
76:33
because he was thinking about
76:34
you. So when he called you, he
76:37
wasn’t realizing what time it
76:38
actually was but he was so
76:40
caught up in the thought of you
76:42
that the time didn’t even it
76:45
didn’t cross his mind. So what
76:48
is basically saying is okay, he
76:50
didn’t he has this habit. He’s
76:51
he probably has a habit of
76:52
doing that to everybody. It’s
76:53
just he’s created this habit,
76:55
right? When you’re blowing the
76:57
whistle, what you’re doing is
76:58
you’re telling his neurons in
77:00
his brain even if he doesn’t
77:02
understand it or catch it his
77:04
neurons in his brain are going
77:05
to catch it and because of the
77:07
sound and the noise of the
77:09
sound that the decibels that is
77:10
at you’re getting the attention
77:12
and the neurons what you’re
77:14
then telling them is don’t call
77:15
me and then you’re giving the
77:17
action you’re giving the the
77:19
rule. you’re writing your
77:21
contract per se to say don’t
77:23
call me. So, immediately after
77:25
the whistle, you don’t want to
77:27
go into the whole spill. women
77:28
get into this and now that
77:30
you’ve answered and now you
77:31
want to sit here and run your
77:32
mouth and sit up there and
77:33
complain about every damn thing
77:34
that irritates you. No stick to
77:37
the point. That’s where you
77:38
messed up the training
77:40
basically. So, when you blow
77:42
the whistle and then you say
77:45
don’t call me at this time at
77:46
night. his brain to make sure
77:49
he starts checking the time
77:50
you’re training his brain and
77:53
then after you create the
77:54
behavior, after the trigger
77:57
that you created right now.
77:59
Now, his behavior is going to
78:01
be your following words of why
78:03
you blew the whistle. Now, it’s
78:06
connected to the whistle as the
78:08
trigger. So then you’re telling
78:09
him how to behave and what you
78:12
do is get the result which is
78:14
the last part of a habit. The
78:17
result is what you require him
78:19
to do for you. basically what
78:22
he’s also saying in another
78:24
part is if he means enough to
78:26
you, don’t discount him on this
78:28
one thing. You can correct it.
78:32
if you want to because then
78:33
women well, then he ain’t right
78:35
and he ain’t right and he ain’t
78:37
right. Is this something that’s
78:38
even correctable? Are you even
78:39
trying to see if it’s something
78:41
that you guys can work out
78:41
because if he’s a good guy,
78:44
then it’s not the fault of
78:45
there’s not enough good men out
78:47
there. It’s the fault of you
78:48
not seeing if he’s Right guy
78:52
for you by creating the
78:54
situation that you want and
78:56
it’s just when you don’t get
78:57
mad at your child and and and
78:58
tell your child when he’s two 3
79:00
years old, forget you. I’m I’m
79:01
I’m going to going to disown
79:03
you and I’m going to throw you
79:03
away because you’re not
79:04
listening to me and you know
79:05
damn well them damn kids don’t
79:07
**** listen. So what you do is
79:10
then you start training your
79:11
kids by getting that belt and
79:13
whooping that **** and when you
79:15
whoop that **** eventually the
79:16
little **** stop because the
79:18
**** hurting. So that’s what
79:20
you’re doing to his brain.
79:23
You’re whooping his brain.
79:24
You’re disciplining his brain
79:25
like you do the 3 year old
79:28
like, well, they always say
79:29
spiritually, you start as a
79:30
child first. We’re all being
79:33
spiritually. So you gotta
79:35
understand if we’re a child in
79:36
a in a toddler spiritually, our
79:40
human self is below that. So
79:41
damn, you just dumb as ****
79:44
right? So, but are you
79:46
teachable? all have a we all
79:49
have a ignorance and stupidity.
79:51
We all dumb as **** Like all of
79:53
us. I mean, just if you admit
79:55
that first to yourself, you
79:56
would understand on the outside
79:58
world why a lot of people do a
80:00
lot of dumb **** but then it’ll
80:02
stop pissing you off. So now
80:04
you’re being more in control of
80:06
your energy and your day and
80:08
you have more happy days
80:09
because you haven’t gone around
80:11
allowing all these other people
80:13
to piss you off. You’re doing
80:16
that. That’s not on them.
80:18
That’s on you either you can
80:20
remove yourself from the
80:21
situation that you know, you
80:22
can’t control. Like if it’s
80:24
something out in public, at a
80:24
grocery store, on the street,
80:26
we get it. If it’s something as
80:28
close as your personal life, if
80:29
it’s not a teachable moment to
80:31
make the situation work for
80:33
your for your your good because
80:36
sometimes we don’t just like I
80:37
I said, this man, the good man
80:38
ain’t going to come and ring
80:39
the doorbell and he going to
80:40
say, here I am, baby. I I’m
80:41
everything you want. I got the
80:42
house, the car, the money that
80:44
you don’t have to do nothing
80:45
you don’t want to do, right. We
80:47
we that’s what we’re looking
80:48
for. but you gotta understand
80:51
that a lot of those packages
80:53
are wrapped and you gotta take
80:54
the time to unwrap the damn
80:56
package. You two don’t know
80:57
each other. You don’t know ****
80:59
about each other. You have to
81:01
learn each other. You’re going
81:02
to go through some situations
81:03
of learning each other. It’s up
81:05
to you and your discernment. If
81:08
the situation is worth going
81:09
through the process of trying
81:11
to teach something, you don’t
81:12
want to give up all your energy
81:14
trying to teach people all your
81:15
life because I’ve been through
81:16
it. Trust me. I’m telling you
81:17
right now. the **** work. Take
81:20
the time to to just try to see
81:23
if he’s teachable and if he’s
81:24
not, then let him go. you know,
81:26
because then, right? He really
81:28
is just that dude that just
81:28
don’t give a **** right? And
81:31
I’m playing with you. Thank
81:33
you. Yeah, you’re right. And
81:34
I’m already, I already know
81:36
that. He’s just not for me. I
81:37
mean, first of all, he’s a
81:38
gamble. He has coached
81:40
Christina six or seven times a
81:40
week. So, I already know that’s
81:42
not for me. You know, the way
81:44
he pulled his last straw with
81:46
you and that’s it. That was it.
81:48
You know, he goes to New York.
81:50
Me and my sister has been for
81:51
the next 4 days and you don’t
81:52
know and it’s just too much for
81:53
me. I just rather pull back and
81:56
be a buddy but that’s right.
81:58
How we can go out some time and
82:00
you know, something like that
82:01
and I don’t mind having them
82:03
around. It’s not a bad guy but
82:04
he’s just about it for me. My
82:06
life is, you know, I live it. I
82:08
live it in this in this secret
82:10
place and I just don’t like a
82:12
lot of foolishness because I’m
82:13
not used to it being away in
82:15
Germany 25 years, I was able to
82:16
really Get Vonda and I just and
82:20
the people there are different.
82:22
So, I’m just, I’m just not
82:23
willing to accept anything. I’m
82:25
really, you don’t you don’t
82:26
have to but that’s basically
82:27
what I’m saying is you write
82:29
your contract, right? Then you
82:31
will you make it understood
82:33
what you’re willing to give up
82:35
your time, what time, what kind
82:37
of time of mine I’m willing to
82:38
give up but I’m not willing to
82:39
give you energy like a
82:40
relationship but I’m going to
82:41
give you some energy like a
82:42
little, you know, distant
82:43
homeboy but those are the kind
82:44
of tricks to be right But we
82:46
write those along the way as
82:48
far as still teaching and
82:50
learning what what kind of
82:51
contract am I going to write
82:52
with you? You know, do I have
82:54
to, you know, dump you down
82:55
from, okay, now you’re starting
82:57
to irritate me. I’m trying to
82:57
teach you. You’re not getting
82:58
it. So now, I’m getting ready
82:59
to dump you down to associate.
83:02
If I decide to call you that
83:03
day, I’ll call you. You know
83:06
what I’m saying? We write our
83:07
contract but we have to be true
83:09
self first. We have to see
83:11
ourself first. We have to see
83:13
ourself in them first by
83:15
through their mistakes and then
83:16
check ourselves to see if that
83:18
applies to us. Not saying it
83:19
does but it is awareness to
83:21
say, hey, let me check myself
83:23
That’s how you allow your
83:25
outside world to check you to
83:27
make sure you become a better
83:29
person all the time and you
83:30
build and go forward. Yes,
83:32
you’re right and I’ve done
83:34
that. That’s right. I’m at the
83:36
place I met with it. Yeah,
83:38
there you go. Yeah, I
83:40
appreciate it. Very good. Thank
83:41
you. Thank you. That’s great.
83:43
much appreciated And then
83:45
finally, The art of emotional
83:49
detachment release the need. to
83:53
control anything. I probably
83:55
could change that word to
83:57
everything outside of yourself.
84:02
because when you boil it, when
84:03
you look at, when you look at
84:06
it, the only thing you got
84:10
control over is you.
84:16
anything outside of you. You
84:20
can’t control it. So detached
84:23
from controlling it. detached
84:25
from from You’re going to mold
84:28
it into this and I’m going to
84:30
shave this and I’m going to was
84:33
word that was used in my little
84:35
hometown. I’m on it or finesse
84:37
it. No, no. Take your hands
84:40
off. If it’s not, you take your
84:42
hands off of it. Let it happen.
84:44
Most of the time, it happens.
84:47
Anyway, all the time. It
84:49
happens. and then if if it
84:52
doesn’t happen the way that we
84:54
expect it, then there’s a
84:55
disappointment and the
84:57
emotional trigger. Here we go.
84:59
Here we go. Here we go.
85:01
controlling yourself. Be be
85:04
concerned and and and and be be
85:08
deliberate about your own
85:10
stuff. and let others be
85:13
delivered and concerned about
85:14
their stuff.
85:21
detached from other people’s
85:25
other people’s lives detached
85:28
from their relationships
85:29
detached from how they’re
85:31
living.
85:36
because I’m I’m I’m a believer
85:37
in this. If anybody is
85:43
living
85:44
in conditions that they
85:46
don’t like the they’ll change
85:48
them.
85:53
And who am I to say that that
85:57
you’re living conditions? are
86:00
substandard. Who am I to to to
86:04
say anything about what anybody
86:07
else is doing in and through
86:09
and for their own selves and
86:11
lives? I have nothing to say.
86:15
and if you want to drive and if
86:18
if I if I tell you that you
86:22
might want to turn around
86:24
because the there’s a cliff
86:26
about a mile away and you’re
86:27
going to go right over the top
86:28
of it and and crash. if I tell
86:31
you that and you keep going
86:36
I got released the control.
86:40
What can I do? What can I do?
86:47
nothing. So, we need to we need
86:51
to really start there. Start by
86:53
voicing our expectations and
86:55
detaching from outcomes. Start
86:57
by and desiree. you start by,
86:59
you know, recognizing and and
87:03
and and owning your own and
87:07
then release the need to
87:08
control anything outside of
87:11
you. I always said I raised my
87:15
child already. I don’t need to
87:16
raise another man, woman,
87:18
whoever. I don’t, not even a
87:19
I’m a social worker and I tell
87:21
my clients, you know, I’m a
87:23
social worker therapist and I
87:24
tell my clients, I don’t even
87:26
want the responsibility to
87:27
change you. I’m just showing
87:28
you the options. That’s all,
87:30
That’s all I’m here to do.
87:31
That’s it. Absolutely. And then
87:34
I wanted to just share if if
87:35
you positive affirmations
87:38
doesn’t match the situation,
87:39
you gotta, that’s a way to
87:41
really identify what’s going
87:42
on. If you stay positive,
87:44
affirmation about yourself. If
87:45
you don’t, that’s the issue
87:46
too. Absolutely. Absolutely.
87:50
So, anybody, anybody have any
87:52
closing thoughts, closing
87:53
remarks on this subject today?
87:56
It was very good. I’m grateful
87:58
for everybody here. Grateful
88:00
for all of the participation.
88:02
Anybody, anybody want to share
88:05
something before we close?
88:10
No, No, No. Well, okay. Well,
88:11
great. Great. Well, again, this
88:13
has been on the set of pipes
88:15
Metatron. I’m thankful and
88:16
grateful for everyone. I want
88:17
to leave us with one final
88:20
thought The best part. of
88:27
transformational change.
88:30
become
88:31
s a parent. after Be good
88:35
to yourselves. Be good to all
88:39
those that are good to you. Get
88:44
yourself ready for the new
88:45
moon. We will be back. on the
88:49
new moon. So, check your local
88:52
listings. I always wanted to
88:53
say that too. Be mindful. Be
88:56
watching the Emails and I’ll
88:57
let you guys know what time
88:58
we’re going to be on for
89:00
Thursday. Again, I thank
89:02
everyone of y’all that is here
89:05
and I will look forward to
89:08
speaking to you guys all on
89:10
Thursday. Bye 0000. Excuse me,
89:14
When I was on here about 3
89:15
weeks ago and this girl she
89:18
passed, I passed. I passed her.
89:20
The number I will reach out to
89:22
her and let her know that
89:23
you’re expecting her to call.
89:25
Thank you Because I was
89:27
wondering about that too.
89:28
Absolutely. I would do that.
89:30
Okay. Thank you. Alright, buh
89:32
bye. Alrighty. Thank you guys
89:34
for all showing up and I’ll see
89:36
you guys on Thursday on
89:37
Thursday. Goodbye for now. Bye
89:39
everybody. Have a great
89:41
evening.
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