On the 7s: Episode 17
Awakenings Of The Seven (7)
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So, we are thankful and
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grateful for everyone that is
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here on the Zoom call. Everyone
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that is watching this live on
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the book. and anyone watching
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the replay. Give me one second,
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you guys.
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and oh
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Yeah. Not good.
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Hold on. This ain’t the last
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time.
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Let me see what I did.
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Can you guys hear me still?
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Yes, I hear you.
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Yes, it’s still echoing. Um let
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me see what this mic setting is
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on.
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Now, a second ago, I can hear
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you. Good and then, the second
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time, yeah, it’s still
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something.
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Yeah. I don’t know what the
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hell that is but we’re going to
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We’re going to believe.
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Alrighty.
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intellectually and physically.
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Let’s see if this helps. this.
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No.
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I’m going to send one of you
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guys. the uh
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radio station. I want one of
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you guys. I’m going to send it
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to uh uh victorious. Can you go
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on your computer and check and
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see if you can hear me talking?
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I will send you the link in a
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second. Hold on. Okay. You send
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it to my Email. Yeah, I’ll send
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it to you. I’ll let you know
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when I get it to you.
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overview. Quick links.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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And when when you go and check
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it, just give me a thumbs up in
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the chat or or on the screen
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here. If you can hear me.
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from the radio station. You
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have to click on that. It’s
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going to pop up and then you’ll
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click Uh did you send it? Yeah,
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I just sent it. Um hold on.
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but I’m not going to fool with
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that microphone. just yet. I’m
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about to fix that. Uh something
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is going on in my system that
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I don’t know like music in the
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background. So,
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This is what we’re going to do.
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We’re going to get there folks.
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We’ll get there but for right
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now, let’s just all who’s who’s
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on the call uh with us. Let’s
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just stretch it out a little
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bit. Hold on one second. So,
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let me see. I’m going to put
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this on mute and then keep
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talking. Uh stretch it out.
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We’re going to feel ourselves
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and get ourselves ready for
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this moment. You’re going to
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get familiar with our
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atmosphere and familiar with
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our environment and just ground
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yourself as best you can right
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where you are. and uh we will
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uh just continue to to be aware
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and be present and stretch it
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out. You know, like that
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parking lot balloon, you know,
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that gets blown up and it’s
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just all over the place. Just
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stretch it out.
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Stretch it out.
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Just stretch it out.
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Stretch it out.
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That’s right. Just stretch it
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out. Just feel your toes. Just
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start bouncing your feet a
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little bit.
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Just stretch it out. Stretch it
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out. You know, if we were if we
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was church folk, we would be
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like Satan, you’re a liar but
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we’re not church people. uh
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retrograde y’alls is lying. So,
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we just going to keep going
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with what we got here. We’re
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going to keep going and we’re
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going to believe that that
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everything is being heard uh
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where it’s supposed to be heard
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everything.
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straight and buff board and
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just stretch it out. Now, we’re
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going to move on to our five
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breaths where we’re going to
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take five deep breaths in
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through the nose. Uh as deep as
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you can. Fill up your lungs as
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full as you can and uh then you
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hold it for a second and then
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you let it out. but we’re going
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to breathe in deeply, hold it,
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and let it out and continue to
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stretch it out. Continue to get
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connected with with your spirit
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guides. Connect with your soul,
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connect with your chakras,
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whatever you’re connecting with
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right now. and then, we’re
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going to take these five
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breaths on our own. and then
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after we do these five breaths,
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we will move into the
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purpose. Breathing of our of
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our class. So, I will start my
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five breaths and when I get
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done, I will come back
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Alright, Energy and attention
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and focus. at the crown chakra.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down. into your third
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eye chakra and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down over your
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eyebrows and eyes and nose and
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ears and mouth and teeth and
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chin and into
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That throat chakra. and leave
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them there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into each arm
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all the way down. Fill up your
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fingertips and all the way back
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up and now down into that heart
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chakra.
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your solar
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plexus chakra. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down your sacral
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chakra. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your root
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chakra.
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and leave some there.
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Now, push that energy and
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attention and focus down into
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your hips. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your
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thighs.
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and leave some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your knees.
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and leave some there.
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that energy and attention and
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focus down into your calves and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your ankles
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus down into your heels.
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and leave some there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus. into your
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arches.
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and leave some there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus down into
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the tips of your toes. and
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leave some
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Now, we will move on to our
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five five and release
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breathing. This is grounding
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and centering us and preparing
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us for the journey that we’ll
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take today. We’ll breathe in on
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a five count. We will hold it
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for a five count and then we
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will release. We release
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everything that’s in your lungs
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energy and attention and focus
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at the toes. hearts, and minds
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clear breathe in inspiration.
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Hold that inspiration.
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and release procrastination.
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Push it all the way out.
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breathe in. courage.
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Hold that courage.
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and release.
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breathe in motivation.
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Hold your motivation.
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and release. Perfect
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imperfection.
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You’re good enough just the way
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you are. Last one. Breathe in
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Positive energy.
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Hold that positive energy.
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and release positive action and
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effort.
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Energize yourself. Get
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equipped.
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energy and attention and focus
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at the toes.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your arches and
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leave some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus into your heels. and
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leave some there.
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Push that energy and attention
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and focus into your cans. and
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leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus. into your knees.
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your thighs.
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your hips.
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and leave some there.
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Push your energy and attention
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and focus into your root
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chakra. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your sacral
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chakra. and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your solar
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plexus chakra. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your solar
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plexus chakra.
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and leave some there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus into your heart
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chakra. and leave some there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus into your
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throat chakra. and leave some
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there.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus up around your chin
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and teeth and lips and nose and
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ears and eyes and eyebrows and
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up into the third eye.
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and leave some there.
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and push that energy and
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attention and focus. into up
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into your crown chakra. and
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leave.
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Now, we will move to our 7777
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chakra energizing, breathing,
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but we’ll breathe in on the
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seven count. we will hold for a
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seven count. We’ll breathe out
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for a seven count and we will
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hold that for a seven count and
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we will do three repetitions.
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There will be no break, no deep
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breath in between, have to go
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one after the other after the
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other. energy and attention and
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focus at the crown hearts and
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minds clear. breathe in. your
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creativity.
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your consciousness.
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breathe out your confidence.
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and hold your commerce.
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breathe in your prosperity.
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Hold your purpose.
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breathe out your positivity.
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and hold your positive
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production.
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breathe in your commitment.
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your consistency.
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breathe out your compassion.
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and hold your curiosity.
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energy and attention and focus.
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back to the crown chakra and in
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your mind’s eye view. See
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yourself in your mind’s eye
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view I got a picture of
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yourself. Now, right above your
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head. Imagine a light
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It
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doesn’t matter which color
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the light as long as you see
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the light.
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Reach up. and connect. with the
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light.
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feel the vibration and
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frequency of the light.
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become one. with
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, pull that light down to
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where it meets your energy and
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attention and focus. at the
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crown chakra. that light all
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the way down to where it is
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covering up the top portion of
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your forehead region. Hold it
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there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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Now, pull that light. Pull that
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energy. Pull your attention.
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Pull your focus. down to where
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it covers up your third eye
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chakra. Pull that light and
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energy and attention and focus
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down to where it is at the top
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portion of your eyebrows. Hold
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it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Pull that light down a little
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further. Pull your energy
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attention, and focusing like
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down over your eyes, down over
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your ears and nose and mouth
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and teeth and chin and pull
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that light all the way down to
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where it is covering up your
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throat chakra. Pull the energy,
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attention, focus, and light all
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the way down to where it is at
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the base of your shoulders.
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Hold it there.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Pull that energy. attention,
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focus, and like down even
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further. Pull it down to where
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it is covering up your heart
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chakra. Pull that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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all the way down to where it is
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in the middle portion of your
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breastplate region. Hold it
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there. breathe in,
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, while we’re still at the
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heart chakra region, imagine
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your heart chakra as the pedals
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of a Rosebud They’re beginning
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to open See your heart chakra
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open just as the bud of a rose
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opens. That’s right. Open it
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fully. Open it up. Open it up.
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Hold it there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that light. Push that
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energy. Push your attention and
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focus down even further. pushed
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it down to where it is covering
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up your solar plexus chakra.
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Push that light and energy and
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attention to focus down to
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where it’s covering the top
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portion of your stomach region.
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and hold it there. breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Push that energy, attention,
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and focus in like down even
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further. push it all the way
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down to where it is covering up
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your sacral chakra. Push that
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light and energy and attention
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to focus down to where it is
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covering up the entire portion
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of your stomach region. and
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hold it there. Breath in
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and hold
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Push that light and energy and
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attention down even further.
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Push it down to where it is
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covering up the root chakra
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region of your body. Push that
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light and energy and attention
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and focus all the way down to
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where covering up your hip
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region Hold it there. Breath
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in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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attention, and focus in light
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down into your thighs. Push it
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further down into your knees.
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Continue pushing it down into
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your calves and into your
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ankles and into your heels and
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down and around and into your
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arches and all the way down
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until it fully illuminates your
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entire body at the tip of your
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toes. Hold it there. breathe
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in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, as you see yourself fully
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illuminated.
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expand the light out from your
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body. until it becomes one with
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your mind’s eye healed. Expand
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that light out until it becomes
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one with your mind’s eye view
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and then one with the universe
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Hold it there. Now, as we just
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did with the light. do the same
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with your body Expand out your
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body. until it becomes one with
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your mind’s eye view. and then
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one with the light and then one
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with the universe Hold it
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there. breathe in.
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out.
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And hold
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Welcome to the Astro Rey. and
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your own personal manifestation
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and healing chamber. Take a
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moment and fly around.
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Whatever. manifestations,
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whatever goals, desires, and
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active pursuits. that come up
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to you, grab each one of them
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with your left hand and put it
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into that open chakra. no
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matter how many of them that
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you see, grab each and every
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one of your manifestations of
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your goals, desires, and active
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pursuits and them in that open
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heart chakra. one by
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and pay attention because while
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you’re flying around, your
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healing opportunities will
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present themselves to you.
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And after you finish putting
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your goals, desires, and actor
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pursuits, grab those healing
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opportunities with that left
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hand and put them into that
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open heart chakra.
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Got ’em all. it now with your
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left hand. Put it on that open
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heart chakra and with your
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right hand, put it on your left
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shoulder. as we energize, equip
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and empower every manifesting
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goal, desire, and active
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pursuit and every healing
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opportunity Hold it there.
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breathe in.
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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enjoy that equipping and
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empowering.
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and energizing.
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now.
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energy and attention and focus
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and light is at your toes. as
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you begin to push that energy
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and attention and focus and
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light up into your arches,
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clearing it all of the energy
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you left there before push that
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energy and attention and focus
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and light into your heels push
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that energy and attention and
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focus in life into your ankles.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light into your
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knees.
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that energy and attention and
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focus and light into your
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thigh.
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push that energy and attention
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and focus and light into your
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hips. and push that energy and
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attention and focus and light
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into that root chakra and hold
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it there. breathe in.
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out.
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and hold
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I’ll push that energy and
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attention and focus in life.
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into your sacral chakra and
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hold it there. breathe in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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attention, focus, and light
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into your solar plexus chakra
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and leave it there. Breath in.
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breathe out.
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Now, push that energy
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attention, and focus and light
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up into that open heart chakra
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where you’re energized,
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equipped, and empowered.
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Manifesting goals, desires, and
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active pursuits and healing
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opportunities are waiting for
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them. Hold it there. breathe
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in.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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Attention, focus, and light and
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energize and equipped and
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empowered, Manifesting goals,
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desires, active pursuits, and
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healing opportunities up into
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that throat chakra and hold him
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there, breathe in,
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Hold
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, push that energy
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attention, focus, and light and
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equipped and empowered and
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energized. manifesting goals,
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desires, and active pursuits
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and your healing opportunities
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up around your chin, your
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teeth, your mouth, your nose,
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your ears, your eyes, and up
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into that third eye chakra. and
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hold it there. breathe in,
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Now, take that energy. Take
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that attention. Take that
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focus. Take that light. Take of
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those energized, equipped, and
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empowered, manifesting goals,
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desires, and active pursuits
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and those healing opportunities
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and push them up and out and
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through your crown chakra and
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let them all illuminate your
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mind’s eye view like the stars
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Hold it there.
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breathe out.
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and hold
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Enjoy your manifesting goals,
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desires, and active pursuits
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and healing opportunities.
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Reign that is reigning upon
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your experience.
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as we come back. to the now.
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And as we start rubbing our
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hands together, We’re going to
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take three deep breaths. Hold
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and release while we continue
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to rub our hands together to
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seal in this cosmic goodness
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and this Soul energy and to
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further equip our manifesting
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goals, desires, and active
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pursuits and healing
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opportunities. Breathe in
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Hold and release.
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breathe in.
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Hold and release.
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breathe in.
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Hold and release.
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and with that, welcome to On
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the sevens with Piper’s Be
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Metatron. I am your host Pr’s B
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Metatron. I’m the hostess with
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the mostess right now. I would
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like for each and every one of
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us if we can pinch yourself,
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just clap your hands, rub your
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head, do something, let
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yourself know that you are here
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in the now. Uh greetings and
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welcome to everyone as I do a
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little technical man I’m going
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to open up the floor for anyone
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that would like to greet us and
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meet us and say hello or say
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whatever as I prepare to move
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this along in our lesson for
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today.
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It’s good to see you. my
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brother, Ryan.
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great meditation. Enjoy it.
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Thank you my brother. Thank
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you. Thank you. Good to see
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you, Joanne. Thank you. Thank
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you for sending that awesome,
44:28
beautiful support message.
44:30
Thank you. I’m home.
44:31
Absolutely. Um my sister is
44:33
home. She’s getting blessed.
44:35
Thank god. you know her life
44:38
has been spared and you know,
44:40
but slowly, the more she moves,
44:42
the more she gets back
44:43
function. So, she’s good to go.
44:46
So. Absolutely. Thank you for
44:48
your support. That’s good.
44:49
That’s good. I want to jump
44:52
right in. uh to the lesson
44:54
today. Today, we are going to
44:57
peel back more of the layer
45:01
That is the intellectual self.
45:03
Um the Intellectual Self is
45:06
aligned and attached to the
45:08
throat chakra. The Intellectual
45:11
Self is the home to our
45:13
learning capacity. It’s home to
45:16
our communication center It is
45:21
how we express our truth. It is
45:26
through our Intellectual Self
45:28
that we actually express our
45:31
truth. Now, the emotional self
45:33
and the Mental Self have a lot
45:36
to do with that expression but
45:38
it is through the intellectual
45:41
Self that we communicate and
45:43
express our truth Um today, I’m
45:48
going to jump straight into it.
45:49
I think we have a hot topic
45:51
today. Uh You know, we like to
45:54
stir up the stink part of
45:56
everybody’s soul because that’s
45:57
where the healing opportunities
45:59
are. Uh if you don’t stir that
46:01
up, then, no healing today. we
46:04
want to uh touch on a few
46:07
areas. uh uh of great
46:10
importance to the intellectual
46:12
self. Um Number one is how we
46:18
learn. slash how we absorb or
46:24
process. information. like I
46:28
mentioned. uh on Thursday, you
46:31
know, each one of us is unique.
46:35
Uh there is no one size fit all
46:39
uh anything for any of us, Each
46:41
one of us are are truly, truly
46:44
unique and uh each one of us
46:48
learns according to our
46:50
intellectual self and our own
46:52
learning capacity
46:57
because we all have our own
46:58
learning capacity. The the way
47:02
that uh most of us think we
47:06
learn is through that
47:08
indoctrination of education and
47:11
that is not learning. That is
47:13
just uh being trained to be
47:15
able to regurgitate inadvertent
47:20
facts and how to take a test.
47:22
and we do know that your level
47:25
of education has little to do
47:28
with your intelligence. Let me
47:31
say that again. Your level of
47:34
education has little to do with
47:38
your intelligence. So, today, I
47:41
want to touch on uh how we
47:43
learned and how we absorb or
47:46
process information Now, I
47:51
gotta tell y’all the story
47:53
about myself and and you know
47:57
how how I was I was born in a
48:00
fury. It was it was way ahead
48:01
of schedule. and uh by the time
48:07
uh the attended doctor came to
48:11
examine my mother and pulled
48:12
the sheet back. I was already
48:13
out of the portal and I’m
48:16
looking around when crying
48:19
wasn’t anything, didn’t get
48:20
scared or anything. just
48:21
looking around I believe. the
48:26
the first and probably the most
48:34
uh vital way that we learn and
48:38
that we absorb and process
48:40
information is through
48:42
observation. Just think about,
48:44
think about it as a newborn.
48:46
think about it. You know, uh
48:49
before we know anything, we see
48:52
it Observation. Observation is
48:56
probably one of the most
48:59
important ways of learning yet,
49:02
it is discounted the most
49:05
especially with, you know, all
49:07
that we have going on in in
49:10
media and in television and in
49:11
all of those uh modems of
49:14
entertainment. is is getting to
49:16
the point to where if you are
49:18
not grounded some sort of
49:23
reality. You really can’t
49:26
believe what you’re seeing
49:28
these days. Anybody else feel,
49:31
feel that uh uh we went to bed
49:36
December, 31st 2019 in regular
49:39
America and then when we all
49:42
woke up January, 1st 2020, we
49:45
was in some alternative Bizarro
49:48
world We’re up is now down and
49:51
in is now out and and Uh good
49:55
is now bad and light is now
49:58
dark. It just seem like
50:00
everything was just turned
50:01
upside down and we are being
50:05
told we’re being forced and
50:09
told that we cannot believe
50:14
what our eyes are telling us
50:19
Y’all want an example of that?
50:21
Uh I know. and knew him as the
50:28
the castle on gold medal. The
50:31
winner
50:35
Mister Jenner. It was on a box
50:39
of weed when I was a kid and he
50:41
had this gold medal around his
50:42
neck and the gold hair was
50:44
flying. They had them shorts,
50:46
Them 80s shorts, you know, the
50:48
the short shorts and he was
50:50
running around the track and
50:56
Now, I have to
51:00
acknowledge that. the person
51:05
that I saw when did the castle
51:07
in an Olympics 4050 years ago
51:10
is now a woman So, I can’t
51:13
believe what I saw back then
51:16
and I can’t believe what I know
51:18
about anatomy and biology and
51:22
physiology I can’t believe what
51:26
I’ve seen. You guys understand
51:29
what I’m what I mean by that
51:31
observation, My observation
51:32
now, now I have to observe him.
51:36
Her she them, I’ll just call
51:41
him them. I have to observe
51:43
them. not for who they were but
51:49
who they are now, I guess. I
51:51
mean, who who they say they
51:52
are? Anybody, Anybody else have
51:56
an issue with being made or
52:00
forced to acknowledge that not
52:04
accept it. I accept it. I don’t
52:05
care. I don’t care. You can
52:07
call yourself a monkey. I don’t
52:09
care. Call yourself whatever.
52:12
you can dress however you want.
52:14
You can sleep with who you
52:16
want. You can identify the way
52:18
you want. I don’t care. but I
52:21
have to be forced to be at the
52:25
forced to just be high. have to
52:27
have inundated on me. I didn’t
52:29
I didn’t give them the uh the
52:33
permission to force feed this
52:36
to me. and to make me think
52:39
that if I don’t acknowledge it
52:42
that I’m something wrong with
52:43
me. I’m I’m the crazy one.
52:47
Observation is observation,
52:49
important in learning. Can I,
52:50
can I get, can I get a witness
52:53
over here? The information for
52:58
observation is extremely
52:59
important in learning and I
53:00
like the way you started it
53:02
because before you learn
53:03
something, he was saying
53:04
something um let’s take Look at
53:07
what they have created that
53:09
mimic us. So, we are the
53:11
computer, right? That’s the
53:13
first computer for the first
53:14
computer. It was sixty women in
53:16
the room doing computation in a
53:19
big old humongous machine and
53:21
that ain’t broke that down in
53:22
the cellphones and laptops.
53:24
Absolutely. We are the
53:25
computer. So, I’m going
53:27
somewhere with that being that
53:28
we are the computer nowadays.
53:30
these artificial versions of
53:32
us, they simulate information.
53:35
So, for the people years ago, I
53:37
was saying you live in a
53:40
simulation, brother. You live
53:40
in a simulation. Well, now,
53:43
it’s become a reality because
53:44
they have projects like Shadow
53:46
Gate and they have um the the
53:48
Intelligence Surveillance Act
53:51
where they’re observing that
53:54
survey and everything we’re
53:55
doing and that turns into an
53:57
algorithmic society that we
53:59
live in. So, I’m saying that to
54:01
say you have to always observe
54:03
and make sure you’re on your
54:05
script and you’re not playing
54:06
to the algorithm such such a
54:10
catastrophe like depending.
54:12
Absolutely. because there’s
54:13
certain there are certain
54:14
scripts for people’s scripts
54:16
have changed because of the
54:18
adjustment to that they don’t
54:18
even realize it. That’s right.
54:21
It’s all about observation.
54:22
That’s right. And I’m glad you
54:23
mentioned script and thank you
54:25
for that my brother. I’m glad
54:26
you mentioned script because I
54:28
am the king of I will **** up
54:31
your ending so you better have
54:33
an alternative ending written
54:34
if you got a script for me
54:35
because I will I’m not going to
54:37
go along with your script. I
54:39
never have. I got my own ending
54:41
figured out. and it’s totally
54:45
different than anybody else’s
54:46
that they would have for me but
54:48
observation is key and it’s
54:49
that first, it’s that first
54:53
thing. It’s the first thing
54:54
that we use to learn. I can
54:57
remember as as a young man, uh
55:00
we would go to house parties Uh
55:03
uh I know some folks on here
55:05
may not know about it but house
55:06
party we used to go to house
55:08
parties in our little hometown
55:09
or we go to Hanford or Corcoran
55:11
or Bakersfield and sure enough
55:13
somebody always wanted to be
55:17
shooting a gun. We saw this
55:21
before we heard any anything.
55:22
We saw the commotion come. we
55:25
observe. We were always observe
55:26
it When we went out of town
55:27
when we weren’t in our
55:29
hometown, we were always
55:30
observing. We’re always
55:32
watchful watching. pay
55:35
attention and you can’t believe
55:39
what you see
55:42
You can believe what you see.
55:47
Your eyes are not fooling you
55:48
trust the learning that comes
55:52
from observation. Number two,
55:55
another way we learn by
55:56
personal experience and and I’m
55:58
still uh uh in the mind and in
56:01
the vein of childhood or
56:04
youngster uh talk back and get
56:06
slapped. That’s a personal
56:08
experience where you learn real
56:09
quick. You know, like you you
56:12
uh uh uh drop one of them curse
56:15
words at the store and you’re
56:16
with your mama and she
56:19
backhand. you right there in
56:20
the middle of the store. That’s
56:22
a personal experience learning
56:25
you. That’s a personal learning
56:26
experience. Guarantee you, you
56:29
might say that word many times
56:31
after that but you’ll never say
56:33
it again in front of her in the
56:35
store. personal experience. uh
56:38
uh being able, you know, as a
56:41
kid uh um uh boys we build
56:45
things and that’s personal
56:46
experience. You know, you gotta
56:47
talk a truck, you can fill it
56:48
up with dirt and you put water
56:49
in it and and you know, If you
56:52
don’t pour the stuff out, then
56:53
the mud are are kicking in.
56:54
never get it out. That’s a
56:56
personal experience. That’s a
56:57
learning personal experience.
57:03
young ladies. Y’all learn y’all
57:04
get dolls and you braid their
57:06
hair. That’s how you learn how
57:07
to braid hair, right? At least
57:09
some of us that’s a start.
57:11
That’s a it’s a personal
57:14
experience. personal
57:16
experience. Now, another one
57:19
that’s a personal experience
57:21
but it’s a little different is
57:22
through trial and error. It’s a
57:25
little different than personal
57:26
personal experiences. You
57:27
you’re doing something you’ve
57:28
never done before. Trial and
57:30
error is I’m going to figure
57:32
this out if it kills me.
57:36
Some of us. our relationship
57:40
history is like that, ain’t it?
57:42
Trial and error. I’m going to
57:46
figure out this. I’m going to
57:47
figure it out and I’m going to
57:48
figure it out. Puzzles. you
57:50
think of a puzzle. think of
57:51
when you’re putting a puzzle
57:53
together, think about when you
57:54
when you open that box and see
57:57
all the pieces all over the
57:57
place and you pour it on the
57:59
table you gotta first of all II
58:03
always did this. I always found
58:04
the ones that had the flat edge
58:05
on them. I knew those were the
58:06
base. So you start with the
58:08
base. you connect all the
58:09
pieces that and then you have a
58:11
frame and then you’d look for
58:14
you start solving the problem
58:15
which color goes here and which
58:17
one fits here and and trial and
58:19
error you know, trial and
58:23
error. Anybody, anybody play
58:25
sports? We have equipment that
58:30
that you know, we have to play
58:32
with you. If you have cleats
58:33
and there are three quarter
58:35
inch cleats and half inch
58:36
cleats and a quarter inch
58:38
cleats and depending upon the
58:41
terrain and and and and what
58:43
sport you’re playing, you have
58:45
to you have to figure out which
58:47
one of those cleats is going to
58:48
give you the best traction and
58:49
you can only do that by putting
58:51
all three pairs of them on
58:53
there and start running. So, if
58:54
you have to do a trial and
58:55
error, you have to test a test.
58:58
How many of us have continually
59:01
learn through tests?
59:05
I do. every day, Every day, I
59:11
learn how to control my anger
59:14
by the test of dealing with
59:17
people other than myself.
59:21
I I’m I guess I’m the only one
59:24
that has learned how to smile
59:25
at somebody cut me off and be
59:28
like, I’ll send you expedient.
59:29
Uh get to your destination
59:32
energy now. Amen. can relate
59:36
before before I will speed up
59:38
If I see you coming over and
59:40
you want to get in my lane,
59:41
I’ll speed up and look at you
59:43
be like, yeah, what you want to
59:44
do? You want to race and I dare
59:47
you to start talking **** in
59:49
your car because I’ll stop and
59:51
get out. Well, I’ve learned.
59:54
I’ve learned how to just let
59:57
you go right in front of me.
59:58
I’m not, I’m not in a hurry no
59:59
more. I got out of corporate
60:00
America as soon as I got out of
60:02
corporate America my whole life
60:04
and lifestyle slowed down. I
60:05
wasn’t in a hurry anymore while
60:08
I was in corporate America.
60:09
Everything was go go go and do
60:10
this and do that and I never
60:11
had time to do anything at all.
60:15
Once I got out of that, then I
60:16
slowed my **** down. Trial and
60:20
error. Test test pay attention
60:22
to the tests. Don’t ask for
60:24
them but pay attention to them
60:26
because those are your learning
60:28
opportunity. Y’all know y’all
60:29
that’s been on these calls with
60:30
me. Know that I either win or
60:32
learn. Ain’t no ain’t no
60:35
losses, no defeats. I either
60:38
win or I learn trial and error.
60:43
Another one and and this is a
60:44
great one and this is one that
60:46
doesn’t get talked about so
60:49
much especially after we get
60:51
out of school and and out of
60:53
like grade school. we think it
60:56
stops there but it doesn’t peer
60:59
group pressure
61:03
How how do you learn? You ain’t
61:05
cool.
61:09
from your peer group. how you
61:12
learn. You’re not with the in
61:13
crowd. How do you learn? How do
61:14
you, how do you learn that your
61:16
family don’t want to be
61:17
bothered with you but from your
61:18
family? from their actions, How
61:23
do we learn? How do we learn
61:26
some of the some of the things
61:27
that we do is uh from our peers
61:31
I have plenty of peers that
61:34
I’ve learned valuable things
61:35
from in my life. things I
61:39
didn’t know or things that
61:40
maybe I’ve been doing a
61:41
different way and I observe and
61:44
and personally experience my
61:46
friends, my peers, doing
61:48
something else. That’s how I
61:50
got into golf before I was uh
61:54
at this one particular job in
61:56
Long Beach, California. I’ve
61:57
never golfed before. Yeah, I
61:59
went to uh uh men’s golf but
62:02
that’s not golfing. That’s
62:03
amusement park and I got this
62:06
job and and the peers, my peers
62:09
kept saying, hey, man, you
62:10
would be pretty good at this.
62:11
Why don’t you come out with us?
62:12
Why don’t you? And through that
62:14
peer group pressure I ended up
62:17
buying some clubs and taking
62:20
some lessons and yeah, You know
62:23
that don’t be a square Each one
62:26
of us in our own ways. in our
62:29
own manners. We want to fit in
62:33
somewhere
62:36
we learn. to attempting to fit
62:40
in. And how’s that through the
62:44
peer group pressure? Anybody
62:47
got any examples of some some
62:49
now? right nowadays, peer group
62:51
pressure that has influenced
62:52
you. I’m not talking about as a
62:54
kid I’m talking about right
62:54
now. II learned how to golf
62:58
because I got a job and yeah it
63:00
was it wasn’t a requirement but
63:01
if I didn’t do it, I wasn’t
63:02
going to get promoted.
63:07
Anybody else? I don’t want no
63:11
peer pressure. Really? I like
63:13
conversation and if it gets
63:14
over my head, I gotta bounce to
63:16
go by. I, you know, I think
63:17
I’ve passed. I don’t have no
63:19
like best friends. Like I have
63:21
to hang out every day. I have
63:23
to hear from them every day. I
63:24
don’t have that. I’m solitude
63:28
right now. That’s good and I
63:29
don’t have it. I get more done.
63:31
Uh I don’t have it anymore
63:33
since uh 2009. However, that
63:36
was something that was very
63:37
very prevalent you know, on me
63:40
uh uh uh II, you know, let’s
63:44
take it to to the peers in
63:47
these organizations that we’re
63:48
a part of. If you’re just
63:50
coming in to a new
63:51
organization, you don’t know
63:52
the procedures or the
63:52
protocols, you have to learn
63:54
them. Learn from your peers,
63:57
your peers, going to let you
63:58
know Now, I have way down on
64:02
the list in the fifth position.
64:04
secondary and advanced.
64:08
institutions of higher learning
64:09
and all of that is in big
64:12
quotations and parenthesis and
64:14
if I could draw an emoji, it
64:17
would be the emoji of laughing
64:19
all over the place. because
64:22
like we were starting to talk
64:24
about like we started to talk
64:26
about uh on Thursday. Uh unless
64:31
it’s a skill based curriculum.
64:34
What are we learning? What are
64:37
are learning in geography every
64:39
year when you get the same ****
64:42
Is that learning or is that
64:43
indoctrination? There is there
64:45
is critical learning that goes
64:47
on in secondary and higher
64:49
institutions. I’m not here to
64:51
tell you that all of it is
64:53
horse hockey. However, really I
64:59
think it depends on who you
65:00
know because the boys and my
65:02
family, they have engineering.
65:05
They have they have math and
65:06
they talk that every day.
65:08
That’s their conversation.
65:09
That’s the conversation that’s
65:11
in that conversation. I can’t I
65:14
don’t talk numbers square
65:16
feets, miles Rams. That’s what
65:19
they know and yeah, my brother
65:22
fixes broilers. If you put down
65:24
a broiler in a minute verbally
65:26
and physically. Yes. And and
65:27
you know, So, it depends on who
65:31
grab on to it. Absolutely. but
65:33
they’re there is vital and
65:36
necessary. uh learning
65:39
opportunities in secondary and
65:41
higher education. They’re
65:42
there. There is there is and it
65:44
is how we learn. We do learn at
65:52
schools now. we can debate on
65:57
another time and another uh uh
66:00
show if what we are being
66:04
presented in schools, is it
66:06
beneficial for us that that’s a
66:10
different topic but how we
66:14
learn is through schools
66:16
schools, and trade schools and
66:18
things of that nature. Those
66:20
are how we learn and at places
66:22
that we go to to absorb and
66:24
process information This one
66:29
right here. is is really going
66:31
to uh uh if if I was y’all, I
66:35
put my hands on my gut because
66:36
this is a gut punch. The next
66:38
one that’s coming, it’s a
66:39
sucker punch. I’m giving y’all
66:40
advance Notice. I’m giving you
66:43
advanced notice. It is a sucker
66:44
punch. How we learn and how we
66:46
absorb a process information
66:48
through our own bad decisions.
66:55
I learn anything from your
66:58
latest bad decision. all the
67:01
time. Yeah. II. Just learned to
67:03
uh so I don’t know if Mark, if
67:05
you’re going to the numbers, uh
67:06
I mean, knowing you well
67:08
enough. Yeah. I don’t think
67:09
that’s going to be excluded
67:10
from this podcast. So, my most
67:13
recent lesson is I learned to
67:15
be more even numbered. Yes. In
67:17
March. You know what I mean II
67:19
move. I move around physically
67:21
like an odd number. I learn to
67:23
be more uh I gotta pause now.
67:25
You know, pauses are powerful
67:28
in life. If you, if you could
67:29
have paused, there’s people in
67:31
jail right now to where if they
67:32
could’ve paused, everything
67:33
would have been different,
67:34
different. So, my pause is what
67:36
would an even number do in this
67:37
situation? Absolutely. and uh
67:40
it’s already working for me and
67:42
the other thing I want to say
67:44
is your bad decisions that that
67:46
builds your problem. Solution
67:47
muscles. Yes. You know what I
67:49
mean? That’s that’s that’s your
67:50
solution. Muscles if you’re
67:52
aware, everything’s awareness
67:53
awareness is one of the most
67:55
powerful non physical resources
67:56
we have. Absolutely.
68:00
Absolutely. Jolene, you got
68:02
something you want to chime in
68:02
with. I see you working there.
68:04
Oh, no. I’m trying to relax.
68:06
No, but I was thinking um
68:08
lately for some reason, I’ve
68:09
been telling my um with my
68:11
clients see what you see, what
68:14
you see what you see and so
68:20
it’s easy for others and it’s
68:21
not so easy for others.
68:23
Absolutely. Absolutely.
68:24
Absolutely. Yeah. You know,
68:27
some of some of my uh uh and I
68:31
love making a word some of my
68:32
worst bad decisions. I think
68:36
about it now I’m grateful that
68:39
I’m sitting here today uh able
68:42
to do this. I mean, I’ve had
68:44
some of those and I’ve I’ve had
68:46
that that pause that you talked
68:51
about Ryan and the situation
68:53
did uh turn out differently Uh
68:57
for anybody that doesn’t know
68:59
this, know that I have had two
69:03
separate incidences with police
69:07
pulling guns on me not once but
69:11
twice. and obviously, I didn’t
69:15
get shot and didn’t get killed
69:16
and then my parents or my
69:19
family didn’t get reparations
69:21
for me. but it was because in
69:25
the midst of the situation as
69:28
it was unfolding, I decided not
69:36
to go there. not to start
69:39
spewing out at the mouth not to
69:41
jump out of the truck or the
69:43
car not to do anything
69:45
aggressive. kept my hands on
69:48
the steering wheel. I looked
69:50
him right in the eye and said,
69:50
I’m not a threat to you,
69:51
officer. Can you put your gun
69:53
down please? What would you
69:54
like to talk to me about? He
69:57
immediately his ears drop like
69:59
a dog. His eyes drop. He put
70:01
his gun down. He I rolled the
70:03
window down at that point and
70:04
we conversed ironically both
70:08
times that I’ve had a gun
70:09
pulled on me by police. I did
70:12
not end up in jail.
70:16
I ended up with tickets. but I
70:21
didn’t end up in jail. Now, the
70:25
reason, the reason why I had
70:26
guns pulled on me is because of
70:28
the result of my bad decisions
70:30
for not paying my car
70:31
registration and then having a
70:34
warrant So, that was my own
70:38
damn fault.
70:42
I learned from both of those
70:44
incidences because now, my
70:45
registration, if I could pay my
70:47
registration up for 10 years, I
70:48
would And if I get a ticket, it
70:52
gets paid unless I’m fighting
70:54
it and then it still gets paid
70:55
and I wait for my money to come
70:57
back.
71:01
I learned from my bad
71:03
decisions. I’m quite sure most
71:05
of us, if not all of us on this
71:07
call and watching this learn
71:09
from our bad decisions as well.
71:15
It’s not about beating yourself
71:16
up. It’s not about if you’re a
71:18
good person or a bad person. No
71:20
good people make bad choices
71:22
and bad people make good
71:24
choices just the way it goes.
71:29
Last way just for the sake of
71:31
this. this part of the
71:33
discussion. Last way that we
71:35
learn another gut punch karma
71:40
and fate.
71:45
and it’s quiet up in here
71:47
today. Karma does karma teach
71:49
you anything? The fate teach
71:52
you anything? Does your does
71:54
your own karma teach you
71:57
something Or do you not even
71:58
pay attention to it? Or you’re
72:00
not You you’re you’re uh
72:04
possibly denying that you’re
72:07
aware of it.
72:11
Are you just like? oh, that’s
72:13
just life Now, I’m a big
72:15
procrastinator. I learned being
72:17
a procrastinator. It’s not in
72:19
my own selfishness. Sometimes
72:21
it’s not a good place to be.
72:25
you know,
72:28
what we have done. comes back
72:33
to us in what we are doing.
72:42
what you intend and
72:44
deliberately think and focus
72:47
on. is what shows up in your
72:51
reality.
72:55
I don’t believe in random acts.
72:58
There’s no random acts. If
73:01
somebody I don’t even know
73:03
what’s up to me and hands me,
73:06
$100 Bill and say be blessed.
73:08
That’s not a random act. That’s
73:10
because I’ve done that before
73:11
myself to somebody else that I
73:13
didn’t know. So, I’m just
73:15
getting back what I’ve already
73:18
done.
73:25
I get my fate and karma every
73:28
morning when I go out and start
73:29
my car. Why? Because I do the
73:32
regular maintenance on it. So,
73:34
my karma is that it starts
73:38
every day and my fate is that
73:41
it’ll get me back home every
73:43
day.
73:46
what you do
73:47
what you have done
73:48
determines what you’re doing
73:49
and what you get. and I
73:52
learned, I learned uh it took
73:54
me a few cars to learn that if
73:56
I do the scheduled maintenance,
73:58
it’ll run as long as I wanted
74:00
to.
74:03
I
74:04
learned that. through through
74:06
the Carmen Fate of not doing
74:09
that and then being in the
74:10
middle of the highway in your
74:11
car, just break down. I’ve had
74:13
a whole half of a transmission
74:16
just fall out of the car This
74:19
boot right on the street. Why?
74:23
Because 2 months before I’ve
74:24
seen a little leak and I was
74:26
like, oh no, it’ll be alright.
74:28
I can keep driving. That was my
74:32
karma. The the transmission is
74:35
falling out of the car was my
74:37
karma. My fate? Yeah. because I
74:42
could’ve fixed it. how we learn
74:45
and how we absorb and and
74:46
process information,
74:49
observation, personal
74:50
experience, trial and error,
74:51
peer group pressure, uh uh
74:54
institutions of of learning and
74:56
higher learning, all bad
74:57
decisions and Carmen and Now,
74:58
let’s let’s let’s run on to to
75:02
uh number two, how we
75:04
communicate what we have
75:07
learned.
75:11
We know the the easy ones
75:12
verbally, You know, we have to
75:15
give a disclaimer age, not
75:17
withstanding because I was
75:19
fortunate enough that pretty
75:20
much since I’ve come out of the
75:23
my mom’s portal, I’ve been able
75:26
to say pretty much what I
75:28
wanted to say. I’ve been able
75:30
to speak my truth Now, there
75:32
have been consequences of that.
75:34
I’ve been slapped in the mouth
75:36
for it but I’ve still been II
75:38
wasn’t told to shut up. I was
75:39
just told to tell my story
75:40
walking down the hall
75:45
verbally. Verbally is is is is
75:50
the most authentic
75:55
that we communicate what we’ve
75:57
learned.
76:02
and when I’m talking verbally,
76:03
I mean orally and written and
76:05
with pictures because pictures
76:07
talk as well. I’m I’m I’m I’m
76:09
including visual communication
76:12
with the oral and written so
76:14
verbally verbally is orally
76:17
speaking, writing or or or
76:20
doing visual communication
76:26
You know, and it really always
76:28
felt good to be able to say
76:29
what I wanted to say. We’re
76:32
afraid of Uh I wonder if I was
76:35
I was I knew that certain
76:36
things I was going to say was
76:38
going to get a response and I
76:39
was ready for the response. You
76:41
know, it’s like the response
76:43
but I was ready for the
76:44
response I knew that that you
76:48
know, uh when my grandmother
76:51
was mad at me and she said, you
76:52
think you’re smart and I knew
76:54
when I said that’s what I go to
76:56
school for. I knew her response
76:58
was going to be to slap me in
77:00
my mouth. My god, when you
77:03
abused that is my grandmother
77:04
was a terrorist. Yes, she was.
77:07
I had to. My god. he was a
77:09
loving terrorist but she was a
77:11
terrorist. Yes. My goodness.
77:13
Yeah. She was Yeah, she was she
77:17
was my first bully. She’s the
77:20
only person on the planet I’ve
77:21
ever been truly afraid of.
77:24
Truly
77:28
Number two, nonverbal
77:31
communication, body language.
77:33
Body language is a good one but
77:35
but in this day and age, the
77:36
facial expressions
77:42
You know you can somebody can
77:44
say something to you and and uh
77:48
the the most immediate body
77:50
language communication is to
77:53
flip somebody off
77:58
That’s the most immediate one
77:59
but what about the rolling of
78:01
the eyes? Somebody say
78:02
something to you. You roll your
78:04
eyes at him. That’s
78:06
communication. that you just
78:09
communicated. You don’t like
78:11
what they just said. You don’t
78:11
agree with it. You don’t
78:13
believe it or say something
78:15
else and I’m going to cut you
78:19
Another thing we see in the
78:20
black community a lot is the
78:22
smacking of the lips and the
78:23
pointing of fingers smacking
78:25
lips, sucking the teeth and
78:28
point that finger or let your
78:31
mama say something to you and
78:32
you say,
78:38
I knew I knew uh better to say
78:43
what when my grandmother or
78:45
grandfather called my name, you
78:47
know, like I’d be outside
78:49
playing and my grandmother come
78:51
on the porch and she would say,
78:54
Mark, I wouldn’t turn around
78:56
and say, what I turned my ****
78:59
around and start running to
79:00
where she was at.
79:05
I’m talking about. How about
79:07
involuntarily Physical? uh
79:11
communication? You know, like
79:13
I’ve seen people here, here
79:16
information or see something in
79:18
their initial reaction was to
79:20
faint
79:24
Anybody. anybody got whoopings
79:25
when they was a kid and when
79:26
you thought you had enough, you
79:27
would just fall out.
79:31
Uh I’ve uh no, I fell out when
79:34
I was about to get jumped
79:36
because this girl was like five
79:38
times bigger than me and I’m
79:39
not trying to fight that. So,
79:41
I’m thinking it and I was like,
79:43
I was done. She left me alone
79:44
but yeah, she was too too too
79:47
much for me. Anybody, a public
79:49
speaker and right before uh uh
79:52
you’re going on or to stand up
79:54
to speak, you get this
79:56
cottonmouth and you just That’s
79:58
the involuntary Physical
80:01
communication that’s letting
80:02
you know. Hey, dawg. Drink some
80:04
water, man. You ain’t going to
80:05
be able to talk in a minute.
80:10
anybody experienced some
80:12
involuntary Physical
80:15
communication. You, here’s some
80:16
information and pass out. See
80:19
something and you know, folks
80:21
see things have a heart attack,
80:23
No, they’re voluntary. You’re
80:25
intending to have it. You
80:26
weren’t intended to do that.
80:28
It’s involuntary involuntary
80:32
How about voluntary Physical
80:36
communication? You know, we got
80:40
this for the touchdown and this
80:42
for the timeout technical. We
80:44
also have fighting Fighting is
80:47
voluntary, Physical
80:49
communication.
80:52
Anybody disagree because yeah.
80:55
when you’re fighting, you’re
80:58
communicating to the other
80:59
person. and when they’re
81:01
fighting back, they’re
81:02
communicating to you.
81:09
How about silence? I love
81:14
spiders.
81:17
silence
81:18
can be one of the most
81:20
effective forms of
81:23
communication.
81:28
Silence is III. not so much
81:33
nowadays but as a kid, had to
81:37
be silent. A lot of times.
81:46
adults and other folks were
81:47
talking to me in a way that
81:50
wasn’t true or that I didn’t
81:53
align with and I realized that
81:57
speaking with exacerbate the
81:59
situation, I just would be
82:01
silent. and that pisses off
82:04
people more than anything when
82:05
they’re telling you about
82:06
yourself and you’re just
82:07
sitting there just looking at
82:08
them
82:12
silence. a powerful
82:14
communicator. powerful
82:16
communicator.
82:20
How about this? This is going
82:22
to be a little sensitive and I
82:23
and I apologize up front but
82:26
how about a sudden pattern
82:27
changes of behavior Uh II know
82:34
enough and have studied enough
82:36
and and know enough about
82:37
psychology and and and and and
82:39
the patterns uh uh of folks
82:43
people, especially children,
82:45
children who are are subjected
82:48
to uh uh bullying and or uh uh
82:53
abuse and molestation normally
82:56
have a sudden change in their
82:58
behavior
83:01
got straight A’s and honor
83:04
student and next thing you
83:05
know, uh I ain’t going to
83:07
school smoking weed and at the
83:09
corner something happened. and
83:13
that sudden pattern change your
83:16
behavior is a communication
83:18
tool A study of stuttering for
83:23
children stuttering.
83:42
to some sort of incident either
83:47
positively traumatic or
83:49
negatively traumatic that
83:51
caused a sudden pattern change
83:53
of behavior in us.
84:02
I was diagnosed with colon
84:04
cancer. May 1st two. 2009.
84:11
after I went to the prelims and
84:13
all the tests I had a sudden
84:17
pattern change of behavior.
84:23
I did. That is now
84:27
communicating. and it’s the
84:29
reason I can communicate
84:35
sudden pattern changes You you
84:38
got uh we’re in a relationship
84:40
and and you can set your watch
84:42
by your spouse and then all of
84:43
a sudden, oh, I gotta work
84:45
later. Oh, I gotta go in
84:46
earlier. Oh, we gotta go out of
84:48
town. We ain’t this ain’t never
84:50
happened before.
84:55
never an issue with the money
84:56
and then now the paycheck gone
84:57
before they get home. or
85:00
whatever it is but a sudden pay
85:03
attention to those sudden
85:04
pattern changes in in yourself
85:08
and in those in your circle.
85:11
They’re communicating to you.
85:13
Something is up. Something’s
85:15
up. Last one I want to touch on
85:20
before we run on is
85:25
actively listening.
85:32
how we communicate what we have
85:34
learned. by actively listening.
85:37
We can’t, we can’t communicate
85:41
Communication is not about just
85:44
talking That’s one part. one
85:49
part of communicating is
85:51
talking. The other part is
85:53
listening. because if you’re
85:56
talking and I’m not listening,
86:00
there’s no communication. All
86:03
you’re doing is talking
86:07
and if I’m not actively
86:10
listening, then, I’m not
86:11
participating in the
86:12
communication. If I’m just
86:14
sitting here and you’re you’re
86:16
you want to uh uh uh go to your
86:20
dissertation and I’m sitting
86:22
here going. Mm hmm.
86:28
Mm hmm. Yeah. I’ll be right
86:30
there in a minute. Mm hmm. Mm
86:32
hmm. Mm hmm. Oh, really?
86:38
Where’s the communication? I’m
86:39
not listening. I don’t I’m not
86:40
I not I don’t I want to get of
86:41
there. I don’t I don’t even
86:42
want to be around. So actively
86:45
listening. being willing to
86:48
actively listen is how we
86:51
communicate me being willing to
86:53
actively listen, communicates
86:54
that. hey, you’re okay. You
86:57
being willing to actively
86:59
listen. Let’s me know, hey, I
87:01
can talk with you and it’s not
87:04
going to be that as such. all
87:08
of us that’s ever been on a job
87:12
interview. You actively listen
87:14
there, don’t you?
87:18
Especially when I talk to when
87:20
you get to the part about the
87:21
pay. they really have my
87:23
attention then,
87:27
Yeah. actively listen.
87:29
especially in negotiations and
87:30
in debates. Debates are fine if
87:33
both parties are actively
87:34
listening.
87:38
Differences of opinions are
87:39
fine. I encourage them.
87:40
Actually, it’s the only way
87:42
that we learn and get a new
87:43
perspective or a different
87:44
perspective If everybody walked
87:48
around with blue shoes on, they
87:50
nobody would know that red
87:51
shoes are pretty cool.
87:57
how we communicate what we have
87:58
learned. Very important. and
88:02
they go into the makeup of our
88:05
intellectual self
88:09
and again has very little to do
88:11
with how many years of
88:13
education you have. because I
88:15
know a lot of folks got a bunch
88:17
of letters after their name and
88:20
yeah and I know the folks that
88:22
went past high school and most
88:26
Intellectual people I know
88:31
Anybody got anything they want
88:32
to add before I shuffle off of
88:34
here today. II. Want to add one
88:37
The aha moments. Alright, the
88:40
aha moments. that’s when your
88:41
home without you knowing it,
88:43
your body is talking My and I
88:45
have had several and every time
88:48
I listen to my body talking to
88:50
me, it goes well. So I think
88:52
that’s the aha moment. That’s
88:56
that’s probably should be on
88:56
the top three. Absolutely. Your
88:58
body talking Absolutely.
89:02
Absolutely. I will add that to
89:03
the list. I sure will. Thank
89:05
you. Absolutely. Anybody else?
89:10
Ryan, you got something you
89:12
want to say in closing my
89:13
brother.
89:19
Uh no, I just like the well
89:21
rounded this um as far as some
89:23
talking to you and
89:25
communicating to you.
89:28
There’s a
89:29
fine line between
89:31
staying resolving in your own
89:32
mind on who you are and how you
89:35
do things and what you do and
89:36
what you stand for and on the
89:38
other side of that line,
89:39
somebody you may not like or
89:40
somebody you may love. may be
89:43
telling you some real giving
89:44
you some real feedback So, we
89:48
have the balance between the
89:50
communication within ourselves.
89:51
Uh no, I’m not going to let
89:53
nobody else. It’s the nation
89:54
with somebody may be really
89:55
giving you some contrast
89:56
because sometimes you don’t
89:58
know what you don’t know as to
90:01
who you can’t. If you can’t
90:03
receive the communication. So
90:06
it’s like you’re balancing
90:08
interpersonal communication as
90:09
well as communication with the
90:11
stimuli that you give your
90:12
outside world and how they
90:14
reflect that back to you.
90:15
Absolutely. Absolutely. It it
90:19
it really is a give and take
90:21
and a go go when it comes to
90:24
that and you really have to uh
90:27
I look at it like this. I am
90:30
not a verse to anyone giving me
90:33
or presenting me with any
90:35
information. I am very good at
90:38
sifting through all of what’s
90:40
presented pulling to me, what
90:42
is necessary, vital or the
90:44
lives of my soul and discarding
90:46
the rest and I don’t I don’t
90:47
necessarily kill the messenger.
90:48
I don’t care who the messenger
90:50
is. doesn’t matter to me.
90:51
Knowledge is knowledge. your
90:52
guidance, his guidance, and a
90:54
beneficial word is a beneficial
90:57
word. It doesn’t matter who it
90:58
come from. Absolutely. I agree,
91:01
man. Thank you for that.
91:03
Anybody else My gangster
91:06
sister. You still online here.
91:18
Alright. Alright. If there’ll
91:20
be nothing else I want to leave
91:21
us with
91:27
in regards in regards to how we
91:30
learn and how we communicate
91:33
what we have learned Be
91:37
informed. Be aware, and be
91:41
absolutely sure about what you
91:46
are talking about. before.
91:51
You’ll be talking. This is Jen
91:53
on the sevens with Piper’s Be
91:56
Metatron. I’m so glad that each
91:57
and everyone of you guys are
91:58
here. Keep coming back where
92:00
we’re going to awaken, ascend,
92:02
and expand because if you do, I
92:05
guarantee you your Mastered
92:07
Self awaits you. Goodbye,
92:11
everyone. Goodbye for now. See
92:12
you. See you guys Tuesday.
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